My boyfriend said "Yes.I'll marry you" on facebook...

Charley.christian

Oh well, I dont want to be selffish for leabing unanswered questions...
My bad.

bigmomma051204

So .... get married to him then! Problem solved

Congatulations on your Facebook engagement. Now... you just need to find the money to have a lovely big wedding... oh and the money to fund a life together.. house, bills... oh and a proposal in the real world rather than in cyberspace might be nice too!

Have fun xx

Charley.christian

bigmomma051204 wrote: »

So .... get married to him then! Problem solved

Congatulations on your Facebook engagement. Now... you just need to find the money to have a lovely big wedding... oh and the money to fund a life together.. house, bills... oh and a proposal in the real world rather than in cyberspace might be nice too!

Have fun xx

Lol thanks - and yeah, would like a proposal outside of facebook lol.
after college im sure i'd be able to gain a high paying job
And we may not have the cash but we'll soon get there.

gotta wait til he has a heart operation though. I may not have anyone to marry after but hopefully God'll be on my side and make he super better

kezzygirl

Charley.christian wrote: »

Lol thanks - and yeah, would like a proposal outside of facebook lol.
after college im sure i'd be able to gain a high paying job
And we may not have the cash but we'll soon get there.

gotta wait til he has a heart operation though. I may not have anyone to marry after but hopefully God'll be on my side and make he super better

Pah!it gets worse!Is anyone else smelling troll?

op,why didnt u mention his heart condition before?i agree with the others,methinks u are attention seeking.

Having said that...if you are genuine..Get a grip.Your are not the first and wont be the last to fall for a controlling and manipulative child,but i say get the hell out of this relationship now.u are too young and i think he is playing games

RichGold

Charley.christian wrote: »

um a girl mate who he was looking out for gave him a BJ in school toilets.....

I was always under the impression that I went to the wrong secondary school.

I'm bloody sure about that now.

Doom_and_Gloom

Saying about marrying someone over facebook = childish. This is one thing that should be done in person!

I am not one to take age into it. I still remember people gawping when I said I was moving in with my OH as I was 16 (nearly 17) and he was 19 (nearly 20), had been together for 16 weeks and I was at a private college.
We got engaged when I was 19 and he was 22. I had asked him when I was 18 if he would marry me but he didn't think it was the right time - you know what he was probably right!
We aren't married yet but in the 5 and a half years we have been together we have probably been through more than a lot of couples and we know we are ready to marry (we already feel like a married couple and those that know us treat us as if we are married ). We had always agreed on a long engagement - I'm 22 and he is 25 and we are both thinking we have waited long enough to get married :rotfl:. We just need to save for our wedding which is what we are doing . My parents would pay for our small wedding but we are both against that even though they paid for my sisters wedding.

We know, and have always known somehow, that this is right for us. Moving in together so quick was a shock to everyone else and they didn't think it was right, didn't think it would last, was just a teenage crush kind of thing etc. They were wrong and boy do they know it as even though we have had arguements and even breaks from each other we are very strong as a couple.

However for every couple like us there are loads of those that just can not and do not work. The one thing that is a warning is saying about marriage over facebook :eek:. Honestly who does that? Sounds like the kind of person who would break up with someone over the phone/their voice machine/by text,via e-mail etc :mad:. Serious decisions should be done face to face! Not asking you to marry him in persn shows that he is not mature enough to get married at this time to me. That may not a bad thing in the long run though, it may just mean he isn't really ready yet. However it could also be that you are not right. Who knows eh? All I know is that the way it was done would be causing me to think things through more.

shellsuit

Charley.christian wrote: »

It kinda terrifies me too,but i feel completely myself around him. And
well, we already act like we're married.

&& Kay Peel, We've talked about it SO much.
It was first said on facebook,and i just ignored it, kinda.
But then over the past few days/weeks,he showed me he meant it.

College started this week , but its more or less induction week.
We start properly monday/tuesday...

Do you have your own place together and jobs to pay all the lovely bills?

russabbott

bigmomma051204 wrote: »

So .... get married to him then! Problem solved

Congatulations on your Facebook engagement. Now... you just need to find the money to have a lovely big wedding... oh and the money to fund a life together.. house, bills... oh and a proposal in the real world rather than in cyberspace might be nice too!

Have fun xx

Gonna be difficult if all she has is the £11.01 listed in her signature lol

russabbott

Charley.christian wrote: »

his mum doesn't like me too much because i have a nose ring & baby ear stretchers. I'm really nice to her & i do her housework & just spend time with her.... another reason could be that she feels like im taking her son away from her and that me and him kinda... had sex.
but we were virgins and both agreed to it ...

I'm not allowed to visit because "im not family" which is weird because she always refers to me as her daughter. i understand that she wants family time though.


um a girl mate who he was looking out for gave him a BJ in school toilets, I asked him if it was true and he said no, then a month later he said its true. I got so mad but you should have seen how angry he was at himself for not telling me the truth, but i know the girl and she does it all the time to other girls bfs....

That last paragraph has given me a right giggle on a sunday morning! You are still considering marrying a child, who likes to recieve 'favours' in school toilets....

Get a grip!

russabbott

Charley.christian wrote: »

Lol thanks - and yeah, would like a proposal outside of facebook lol.
after college im sure i'd be able to gain a high paying job
And we may not have the cash but we'll soon get there.

gotta wait til he has a heart operation though. I may not have anyone to marry after but hopefully God'll be on my side and make he super better

Needs a heart op? How did he not suffer a major cardiac arrest with the toilet incident