My boyfriend said "Yes.I'll marry you" on facebook...

Charley.christian

Okay so my boyfriend is on holiday 30.1 miles away or a 45 min drive away, we don't have a car. and I'm not allowed to visit him.

so anyway, I was having a casual conversation with my boyfriend & he said "Yes.I'll marry you" I never even asked him and yes, it was on facebook.

I'm 17 and he's 16, although he acts like he's older & mature.
We've talked it out and if we do get married we're going to get married at 20-25 . and he asked me before. and he said he'll ask again properly when he has a ring.

What do you think?

vroombroom

its not going to be much of a marriage if you can't visit him

SueC_2

I'd say put it out of your mind until you're 25.

Until then concentrate on enjoying life, doing lots, learning loads - both individually and as a couple.

Lozzy88

vroombroom wrote: »

its not going to be much of a marriage if you can't visit him

:rotfl:

Might be one of the better ones

No im joking, tell him thats nice and that your thinking of penguins

Kimberley82

Take it with a pinch of salt.

robpw2

well you cannot get married without parental permisssion til your 18 and by that time you may have met someone else , i think your a bit young to be settling down , you still have som much to expericnce

McKneff

I'm an old wrinklie, so take it with my best intentions.
You have the whole world ahead of you, probably lots more boyfriends, tell him your far
too young to be thinking about marriage yet, Its another 10 years yet.

What about college, university, holidays with the girls, flirting with all those georgous Spanish waiters.

Live a bit, I know, I know, its all loves young dream and he's the one for yu but just take it slowly.

This will all be a distant memory by the time your 25.

Charley.christian

vroombroom wrote: »

its not going to be much of a marriage if you can't visit him

I forgot to mention, he's coming home this weekend.
Thought i missed that bit. sorry.

vroombroom

read what Mckneff wrote - wise words, esp the bit about the Spanish waiters;)

marywooyeah

well only you two know how you feel about each other, I got engaged at 15 and was with him until just before I turned 18, but he was 5 years older than me. At the time I felt I could marry him loved him wanted to be with him forever etc til he became violent and cheated on me several times. not saying your guy will, but now that I'm 24 and married I look back at those days and think I was silly to get engaged so young. I have a friend who was engaged at 16, married and 18 and they are still going strong.
In some aspects age is only a number, but its still young to be engaged. if you both feel this way why not be engaged but not plan anything as you say you wouldnt marry til 25 anyway, see how you go for a while.

puddy

so he answers a question you never answered him about quite a sensitive and personal subject and then posts the answer (to the question you never put to him) on face book where everyone will see it and start gossiping and fueling the subject

yes, he sounds very mature and grown up