Confused and upset.

Sambucus_Nigra

make_me_wise wrote: »

Such arrogance. You really like to show yourself up dont you. I will not be drawn into any further argument with you. You bore me to tears.

It was a response to your 'dear'.

Now - can this nonsense end - nobody knows whether he is pooning her best mate so it's pointless arguing about bit.

shelley_crow

Sambucus_Nigra wrote: »

Reread it - they were on their own hen/stag do.

Did that previous to your post but thanks for the suggestion.

abacus73

Pollycat wrote: »

My God, what a rude person you are, abacus.

At least i didn't resort to name-calling.

I highlighted things in bold to show which point I was addressing, not to force my opinion on you.
How can I force my opinion on you - it's an internet forum.
And it's not really such a ridiculous effort, you just highlight the text and click on the big 'B' symbol. It's hardly rocket science, is it?

Sorry if I insulted your intelligence (?) by highlighting text, how was I to know you were of above average intelligence from your posts?

You obviously didn't like my post as it showed you up to be judgemental and incapable of sound reasoning.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Such a predictable response. I knew you would reply and show your true colours. People like you cant help themselves. I pity your ignorance.

CH27

Can you please stop bickering. It may put the OP off returning & she needs support.

LadyMorticia

Hope you're okay OP.:grouphug:

cyclingyorkie

me too! hope you are OK

anna_grant

Hi OP - really hope you're okay and sorted this out and really interested about how this has worked out - personally, I would have walked iin on him and said 'what are you doing?' but that's just me. My OH has medical problems which means he can rarely make love (last time on holday two weeks ago - previously one year ago) so I may be a bit sensitive about this.

ska_lover

I hope the OP is ok!

Come back and let us know how you got on please OP

bigmomma051204

Hi all. Thanks for all the comments (even the bickering ones...!!! ooh how many exclamation marks did i just use..?!)

Well, he finally came home at about midnight last night. I tried to talk to him but he was having none of it and got so angry that i was a bit scared (not violent but just extremely angry, red in face and pushing me away etc) and in the end i gave up trying.

So, tried again this morning and all i got was denials about it all. He denied that he had been doing anything. Said that i must have put the photo there and he just didnt move it cos he thought i had left it there for a reason (such as what who knows!!). I then reminded him about what he had said on our hen/stag do about her. He again denied he had said anything untoward. I kept to my guns and said i had heard him and i had seen him etc but he just was very stubborn and refused to accept what i was saying to him. He says i am just paranoid about him leaving me for anyone else and that i "should sort my head out", i am "a mental person who needs help" etc etc.. I asked where he had been yesterday and he refused to say.
I know he wasnt with my friend as she was out with her mum and younger brother at the seaside for her mums birthday (spoke to her during the afternoon and spoke to her mum to say happy birthday so doubt anything fishy was going on with them there too!) Again, i have total faith in my friend, i DO have "friends" who i wouldnt be so trusting of it it was them in the pic etc, but her i do trust totally)
He has been ignoring me all day, refusing to speak to me and leaving the room when i enter it. He said i am too "in his face" and need to "back off" when i try to speak to him so i gave up earlier. God knows what i should do. It isnt as easy as just ending things as we are married, have a child and live together. Financially i am the main earner but couldnt stay living where we are without financial contributions from him. This is just a nightmare

CH27

Do you really want to live with someone who treats you so badly?