Confused and upset.

Pollycat

make_me_wise wrote: »

The OPs OH has made no secret, on the flipping stag/hen do of all nights, to state that he thinks the friend is hot and he wishes he had got with her. The OP brings a photo of her friend home to pass on to her, her hubby spots it and decides to use it to have a w***.
These aren't the actions of a bloke who has no interest in someone.

I agree with all that.
However, there is absolutely nothing that the OP has said about her friend that should lead anyone to assume that this friend and the OP's OH are having an affair.

As you go on to say in your 2nd paragraph:

make_me_wise wrote: »

I hope for the OPs sake that her friend has more morals than her husband and wouldn't touch him with a barge pole. We dont know much about this friend though, so who knows whether she might be involved with him or not.

We certainly don't know much about this friend and as I said, it's a giant leap to assume they are having an affair.

make_me_wise wrote: »

I certainly wouldn't put it past this bloke to have tried it on. If he had done and she had turned him down and given him a mouthful would he be knocking one off to a picture of her face!!!!!

The morals and character of the OP's OH are certainly pretty poor, that shouldn't be automatically assumed to be the same for the friend.

And maybe yes, if he'd been knocked back after trying it on, he might well be masturbating to her picture.

Finally, is there any need for multiple exclamation marks?

I get the gist of your words, typing !!!!!! doesn't make it any clearer, at least to me.

Sambucus_Nigra

shelley_crow wrote: »

As I understand it, OP and her OH were already married when this happened, they were attending the hen/stags of OP's friend.

Reread it - they were on their own hen/stag do.

make_me_wise

Pollycat wrote: »

Finally, is there any need for multiple exclamation marks?

I get the gist of your words, typing !!!!!! doesn't make it any clearer, at least to me.

Thanks for going through my post with a fine toothcombe. You have your views and I have mine on the OPs situation.

Finally, is there any need for you to be so picky, or are you just having a really boring sunday and have nothing better to do? Grow up and stop trying to make me see things your way.

Exclamation mark free just to keep you happy dear.

January20

Is it just me? The OP posted first at 11:14 yesterday morning and her OH was out. Her last post was at 10 pmish wasn't it? And she hadn't heard from him? didn't know where he was? Is that not disrespectful and selfish on the husband's part? I'm tempted to agree with the poster who said the OP deserved so much better!!!!!

hethmar

I hope he didnt come home - may be she will realise what a bit of sh*t he is then and move on to find someone who respects her. If the mate is so hot then I doubt she would look twice at the low life husband.

Clearly a w**nker in all respects.

Pollycat

make_me_wise wrote: »

Thanks for going through my post with a fine toothcombe.
You're welcome.

You have your views and I have mine on the OPs situation.
I base my views on what I've read, not by jumping to a conclusion as you and Abacus have done.

Finally, is there any need for you to be so picky, or are you just having a really boring sunday and have nothing better to do? Grow up and stop trying to make me see things your way.
I'm not being picky, it was just an observation.
A lot of people who try to force their opinions on other posters use multiple excamation marks and question marks.
I was just wondering if you were one of those.
I'm not trying to make you see things my way. I don't care if you see things my way or your way.
I don't need to grow up.

Exclamation mark free just to keep you happy dear.

Thank you, dear.

delain

Can we all be nice to each other and refrain from the arguing? It might put the OP off coming back and I want to know what happened!

butterflylady131

Me too, hope she's ok, and managed to sort things out with her husband. Let us know how you are OP.

Pollycat

delain wrote: »

Can we all be nice to each other and refrain from the arguing? It might put the OP off coming back and I want to know what happened!

I'm happy with that if others do the same.

*Louise*

I only logged in today to find out how the OP is and what happened - hope everything is okay. (((hugs)))