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  • squibbs25
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    Hi bm,
    I hope things work out the way you want,
    Good luck.
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  • Pollycat
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    Hi bigmomma
    Thanks for coming back with an update.

    You do sound a fair bit stronger than in your earlier posts (which I've just read back through).

    Maybe this is the time for you to do some hard thinking about what you want and expect from your relationship and ask your OH if he can give you that.
    You mention that he seems worried that you might leave him - perhaps this is the wake-up call he needed.

    In your earlier posts, you intimated that he maybe didn't find you as attractive as he used to - maybe this could be a starting point.

    I did say in one of my posts that I thought maybe he'd been embarassed and that's why he disappeared for so long and why he seemed so agressive towards you.

    I hope you do sort out what you want and is best for you.
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