Confused and upset.

make_me_wise

jakem wrote: »

A horrible thought has entered my head, you dont think he was with her and her mum all day at the seaside, or visited her after she came back?

Why cant he admit to you where he was all day, and why deny what he did over the pic and what you hear him say?

If he was completely innocent he would be swearing on a stack of bibles where he was all day knowing you saw and heard what you did, so you would think he would be telling and reassuring you where he had been, its very odd to me.

You are not alone, quite a few of us on here think the same as you.

NickyBat

Hope you are ok OP
x

Bitsy_Beans

Bigmomma I hope you're OK, please let us know how you are xx

Money_maker

Bigmomma has logged on today so hopefully she's okay. Please come back and reassure us that things are better at home x

fs110

I dont have a lot to add however on most of the threads on this relationship subforum opinion is split (not necessarily always equally). In this instance, everyone agrees on their feelings for this 'man'. That tells you all you need to know. Whether or not he is cheating, he is abusive and disrespectful to you and your child. Thats not a husband and its not a father.

Hugs x

Zoetoes

The whole 'you're mental', 'you're paranoid that I'm going to leave you' etc etc is giving him away, that's exactly what they say when they're up to something and you confront them.

Bin bag him!

shelley_crow

Any updates Bigmomma?

roxydogbert

How's it going, BigMomma? Hope you are OK x

Toothfairy4

Hope the OP is ok...

WinterGhosts

I have just read this thread and it takes me back to when I was living with my ex.

We weren't married, no children and only renting so it was easier to get out of. But please please listen to the wonderful advice given on here. You need to get out of this horrible relationship, it will only get worse. My ex started with the mental abuse and then came the physical abuse. I put up with it for far too long, I was completely blind to it all.

I believed it was all my fault, he would turn everything around and he was always in the right. You deserve so much better, yourself and your child. Someone who will love you with or without those extra pounds, someone who always thinks you are beautiful and who would never ever dream of hurting you.

I hope you have some family you can go stay with for a while whilst you get financially sorted out because you need to get out straight away. Get your bags packed and leave. It will only get harder to leave the longer you stay. You are still young so don't feel scared about leaving and starting again.

I wish you all the best and I am sending you hugs.