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Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

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  • VestanPance
    VestanPance Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    Not black and white is a term used to excuse behaviour you know is wrong. The truth is there is no excuse.
  • Marisco
    Marisco Posts: 42,036 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    VestanPance wrote: »
    Things are always as black and white as they seem.

    Aye, OK then rolleye.gif
  • Bogof_Babe
    Bogof_Babe Posts: 10,803 Forumite
    Marisco wrote: »
    Aye, OK then rolleye.gif

    How did you do that? (I mean the smiley).vuwj+Wp3XdOAAAAAAElFTkSuQmCC
    :D I haven't bogged off yet, and I ain't no babe :D

  • Marisco
    Marisco Posts: 42,036 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Bogof_Babe wrote: »
    How did you do that? (I mean the smiley).vuwj+Wp3XdOAAAAAAElFTkSuQmCC

    Go to photobucket, type in " roll eyes smilies" in the search box, then copy the code and paste it in your post :) I'm sure there will be other sites, but I'm used to photobucket!
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    neverdespairgirl wrote: »
    I love my other half very much - but he can make his own breakfast and lunch (-:


    Quite often mine makes mine for me. Its a weekend treat, delicious frothy coffee in bed while he feeds and lets all the critters out.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    edited 8 September 2011 at 2:45PM
    gratefulforhelp wrote: »
    "Black and white" "Judgemental" and "bitter" must appear in almost every post in this thread.

    I'm not 100% sure what people are really trying to say when they say "things aren't always black and white"...other than "there are mitigating circumstances for adultery"??



    For me ,personally, it is a question of yes, it is wrong, but I understand why some people might go down that road.And in my eyes it does not mean they are monsters/vile creatures - it means they are human.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Bogof_Babe wrote: »
    I think diplomacy comes with age. I bet we were all a bit bolshie at 21.


    Ye I know I was. I have definitely mellowed with age and do not allow things to wind me up like they used to.
  • gratefulforhelp_2
    gratefulforhelp_2 Posts: 9,286 Forumite
    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    For me ,personally, it is a question of yes, it is wrong, but I understand why some people might go down that road.And in my eyes it does not mean they are monsters/vile creatures - it means they are human.

    This version is perfectly reasonable...
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • Bogof_Babe
    Bogof_Babe Posts: 10,803 Forumite
    edited 8 September 2011 at 4:42PM
    smiley_emoticons_wp-rolleyes.gif

    Wahey, a green one! :T :T :T :T

    Cheers Marisco :A.

    Edit... and another thing... smiley_shrug.gif
    :D I haven't bogged off yet, and I ain't no babe :D

  • victory
    victory Posts: 16,188 Forumite
    Any news PTN?
    misspiggy wrote: »
    I'm sure you're an angel in disguise Victory :)
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