Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

erdd2

POPPYOSCAR wrote: »

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May be he will and may be he will not.

No one on this forum is inside this mans head.

No but I bet his ears are burning

VestanPance

POPPYOSCAR wrote: »

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May be he will and may be he will not.

No one on this forum is inside this mans head.

All guys, particularly married men are completetly honest when trying to get the knickers off the bit in the side! :rotfl:

POPPYOSCAR

I do think it very sad that some people who have been cheated on cannot move forward with their lives and remain so bitter. It is not a healthy thing.

I am so glad I was not bitter and went on to meet the love of my life who 26 years and two children later we are as much in love now as when we first met.

nickyhutch

VestanPance wrote: »

Coming from a serial adulterer I'll take that as a compliment.

Right. I could only continue discussing this with you by being as rude and nasty as you, and I'm not going to stoop to that, so I wont be responding any further to you.

I do hope you sort yourself out, because otherwise you have a long, unhappy life to look forward to. You have to put what happened with your girlfriend behind you - she's still ruining your life.

VestanPance

I'm sorted. I'm single from here on in. I'm not daft enough to put faith in anyone else ever again.

POPPYOSCAR

VestanPance wrote: »

I'm sorted. I'm single from here on in. I'm not daft enough to put faith in anyone else ever again.

But are you happy?

You do not come across as being very happy in your posts.

wageslave

nickyhutch wrote: »

I think you're speaking very generally there. I recognise none of that in my 2 husbands.

I still don't get how I'm second choice? Given the choice - me or her - he (they both) chose me.

Have you ever been the first wife?

Your a wife now. Would your husband leave unless forced?

I am honestly not having a go at you.

If your husband was unfaithful what would you do? Keep him of kick him to the kerb?

His first wife choose to fu ck him off. If she had wanted him he would still be with her. That's my definition of second best

The wife always wins if she wants too.

But you know that

Bogof_Babe

POPPYOSCAR wrote: »

I do think it very sad that some people who have been cheated on cannot move forward with their lives and remain so bitter. It is not a healthy thing.

I am so glad I was not bitter and went on to meet the love of my life who 26 years and two children later we are as much in love now as when we first met.

Thanked by nickyhutch and purpletoenails. So they apparently have absolutely no sympathy for the emotional distress of the abandoned wife. That tells me more about their self-satisfaction than any of their self-justifying posts ever could. If and when they get/got what they want, they have no concern whatsoever for the wake of destruction they leave behind. Nice.

Hard not to be bitter when your life turns upside down and you feel the rug has been pulled from under you, sometimes after many decades of being half of a couple, and thinking everything was fine.

POPPYOSCAR

wageslave wrote: »

Have you ever been the first wife?

Your a wife now. Would your husband leave unless forced?

I am honestly not having a go at you.

If your husband was unfaithful what would you do? Keep him of kick him to the kerb?

His first wife choose to fu ck him off. If she had wanted him he would still be with her. That's my definition of second best

The wife always wins if she wants too.

But you know that

This is not true. I know someone who served divorce papers on her husband and then told him not to sign them and for him to come back.He signed the papers and never went back.

neverdespairgirl

nickyhutch wrote: »

Nothing gets past you does it?!

My ex and my OH are the ones who cheated and broke vows. not me.

But you appear to have an unfortunate tendency to be part of that.

<shrug>

Up to you. You certainly appear to be able to rationalise it to yourself.