Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

VestanPance

nickyhutch wrote: »

gettingbackontrack wrote: »

Once again, nasty and unnecessary. There's really no need.

There's nothing nasty or unpleasant in that post. You seem to try and deflect well reasoned arguments by throwing that line out again and again.

Simple fact is having an affiar is always wrong, it is destructive, it does involve lies, betrayal and all the rest required.The fact you are happy to believe in these character traits doesn't mean others won't call it for what it is.

CH27

Why are the quotes going funny?:huh:

nickyhutch

VestanPance wrote: »

nickyhutch wrote: »

There's nothing nasty or unpleasant in that post.

Simple fact is having an affiar is always wrong,

In. Your. Opinion.

VestanPance

nickyhutch wrote: »

VestanPance wrote: »

In. Your. Opinion.

Not opinion, it's fact. We all have control over our own actions, or should things like rape and murder also be seen as ok as they couldn't help it? You know it was just circumstance.

dundeedoll_2

From the 'other woman's' perspective, which I believe what the OP was asking about.

http://newsdzezimbabwe.wordpress.com/2011/07/23/confessions-of-a-home-wrecker/

nickyhutch

VestanPance wrote: »

nickyhutch wrote: »

Not opinion, it's fact. We all have control over our own actions, or should things like rape and murder also be seen as ok as they couldn't help it? You know it was just circumstance.

Killing or raping someone is more than slightly different to having an affair, and if you can't see that, there's no point me talking to you.

nickyhutch

dundeedoll wrote: »

From the 'other woman's' perspective, which I believe what the OP was asking about.

http://newsdzezimbabwe.wordpress.com/2011/07/23/confessions-of-a-home-wrecker/

There's one in the Mail too today (and before anyone picks that to bits, I was looking at it online to get a voucher for a free cinema screening, NOT buying it )

gratefulforhelp_2

dundeedoll wrote: »

From the 'other woman's' perspective, which I believe what the OP was asking about.

http://newsdzezimbabwe.wordpress.com/2011/07/23/confessions-of-a-home-wrecker/

That poor child.

VestanPance

nickyhutch wrote: »

VestanPance wrote: »

Killing or raping someone is more than slightly different to having an affair, and if you can't see that, there's no point me talking to you.

So you have no control over your own actions then?

catkins

Welshwoofs wrote: »

This Daily Mailesque fallacy that marriage is sacred is something straight out of fairy tales. It never has been. The only difference between now and 'the good old days' is that now divorce is socially acceptable so people do it...in the 'good old days' people simply kept a bad marriage together for outward appearances and did what they wanted behind the scenes.

Again...people really need to look beyond the black and white and into the shades of grey.

For some people, myself and my husband included (oh and my parents and sister and brother plus some friends and relations) marriage is sacred and just because divorce is now socially acceptable does not mean we all think that the divorce rate being so high is fine nor is getting married and divorced two, three, four or even more times