heartbroken

coin_operated_girl

Thanks very much

I'm always amazed by how kind and supportive everyone has been, it means a lot to me.

victory

coin_operated_girl wrote: »

Hi everyone,


I want to thank everyone again for all the help/advice/support they have given me, I am so, so grateful, I really would have been lost without it.

Anyway, I just wanted to post a little positive update just because I like it when people update their threads

It is always great to read an update, it puts value to the time invested and it is fantastic to hear you are in a better place, good luck with the job and I hope it gets better and better for you:D

findingmyway_2

I have recently found your post and been reading through the whole thing. I just wanted to say thanks! I really can relate, although unlike you, I have not had the courage to cut the strings. I am teetering back and forth with my boyfriend, I think purely out of fear of being alone. I like you am in a place where I have no friends or family close.

Thanks for giving me some hope that when i finally find the courage to cut the last few strings that are holding us together, that one day, I might actually be ok.

coin_operated_girl

findingmyway wrote: »

I have recently found your post and been reading through the whole thing. I just wanted to say thanks! I really can relate, although unlike you, I have not had the courage to cut the strings. I am teetering back and forth with my boyfriend, I think purely out of fear of being alone. I like you am in a place where I have no friends or family close.

Thanks for giving me some hope that when i finally find the courage to cut the last few strings that are holding us together, that one day, I might actually be ok.

I think it is really important to cut the strings, at least for a while because otherwise it just holds you back from moving on.

So the "sort of" guy came around earlier. I've been thinking for a few weeks now that he probably isn't that bothered about being in a relationship with me just because I don't get to see him that often and he wasn't responding to my texts as much etc. Anyway, I said that I'm getting the impression that he doesn't really want to be with me and he was like yeeeeah, I've been meaning to talk to you about that.

Seems like I have a 6th sense for being dumped.

Percy1983

Oh well, onwards and upwards.

Shame but it clearly wasn't meant to be, you may have to kiss a few more frogs just yet.

coin_operated_girl

Urgh, not for a while. I'm done with guys for now. Instead I'm just going to concentrate on working out what exactly it is that I have done to deserve having my life repeatedly fall apart around me.

Percy1983

coin_operated_girl wrote: »

Urgh, not for a while. I'm done with guys for now. Instead I'm just going to concentrate on working out what exactly it is that I have done to deserve having my life repeatedly fall apart around me.

Sounds as good a plan as any other, there is nothing wrong with being single so enjoy it.

If Mr Right comes along it will just happen, but otherwise you don't have to look for him.

Glad you are doing so well, funny how much life has changed yet it soon becomes the new norm as such.

coin_operated_girl

Yeah theres no danger of me looking for someone right now. I probably shouldn't have got into another relationship so quickly in the first place, it just sort of happened. I am well and truly put off relationships for a while now though.

Gotta be honest though, I'm not doing well. At all. Only difference is that now I don't have anyone to make me smile.

Percy1983

Short but simple one here.

Nobody can make you smile, only you can.

By all means vent anything and everything in here.

coin_operated_girl

True.

I would vent, but I don't even know where to start.