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willow_loulou

coin_operated_girl wrote: »

Yeah theres no danger of me looking for someone right now. I probably shouldn't have got into another relationship so quickly in the first place, it just sort of happened. I am well and truly put off relationships for a while now though.

Gotta be honest though, I'm not doing well. At all. Only difference is that now I don't have anyone to make me smile.

I did the rush into another relationship thing - it didnt last - my children make me smile but inside I am still without that smile at times - Its a very empty feeling that most of the time I dont allow myself to notice. Im too darn busy being a single mum!

But there are times when I really dont do well and Ill just sit and sob. I feel utterly lost and lonely, I despair at my inability to get beyond this hurdle. I have recently started writing a journal which I am finding very cathartic. When things start to get to me I write - its utter drivel but exactly what I am thinking. It really helps me to put my feelings into perspective and try and smile again.

Might be worth a go

Hugs xxx

coin_operated_girl

Thanks for the suggestion. I'll give it a go. This is so much bigger than just being dumped/single though. I don't know how to fix this.

findingmyway_2

Im really sorry to hear about the recent break up. Give yourself time to heal, take time to get used to being by yourself, and with time, you will actually start to enjoy it, and the loneliness will start to fade. Without healing, I think its very hard to move onto a new relationship.

Funny how I can advice, but im terrible at using it on myself.

Stay strong, and keep posting on here about anything and everything that is getting you down. You have a lot of support behind you.

rosered1963

Hi Coin - I have followed your thread from the start - you are doing so well. This recent man was your "transitional" relationship I think. I hope the end of it doesn't make you too down. You come across as a great and resilient person and I wish you luck with everything xxx

PuppyLove_2

Coin, Dont get down again, you had become so postitive! Whats happened? xx