Heartbroken!

vik6525

Leaving aside the 'text' thing for one moment, I genuinely cant see what the fuss is about with him going out, and not contacting you.
When Im on a night out with the gals, if my fella spent all night texting and ringing me, Id be bloody furious with him!

suited-aces

Tbh, at 22 there's no reason you can't get him to look after the kids and go out to do the same yourself. If he would actively give off about it, then pull him up on the hypocrisy, but it seems as though at the minute you're making a martyr of yourself by not doing so.

Kimberley82

I get you love your son but it would not make you a bad mother to stay out till 5am once in a while.

balletshoes

vik6525 wrote: »

Leaving aside the 'text' thing for one moment, I genuinely cant see what the fuss is about with him going out, and not contacting you.
When Im on a night out with the gals, if my fella spent all night texting and ringing me, Id be bloody furious with him!

yes I agree with that, it wouldn't even occur to me to call/text my OH when he's out on a night out, and vice versa. But if I'm reading the OP's posts correctly, she started calling him when he wasn't home by 2am or so? Now for me, knowing that the clubs etc around here are still open then, it wouldn't worry me, but if OPs OH is usually home by then after a night out and he hadn't let her know he was staying out longer, I can see why she'd try to call him.

pinkshoes

Why are you with this guy?? (serious question - am intrigued to know!)

Reading stories like this just makes me realise what a wonderful partner I have, who wouldn't dream of staying out drinking all night, and knows very well that if he does go out for a few beers, firstly, he's not to wake me up when he comes in, and secondly, our 6 month old DS gets up at 6.30am (or earlier), and he WILL get his sorry hung over a*se out of bed, change his nappy, then bring him to me for boob on either Saturday or Sunday morning, then entertain him afterwards whilst I get some sleep!!

Ames

All your other posts have been about what a perfect life you have with your hubby and baby, so surely just one blip isn't worth ending all that for?

leos-mummy

Na wont be ending nothing... he knows hes done wrong, he would go mad if shoe was on the other foot so he has to understand why I got angry

suki1964

Scary thing about this post is that the OP and partner are responsible for another human being


Very very scary

leos-mummy

So everyone that has children are supposed to have perfect relationships, never argue and never make mistakes? Our son is well cared for! There will never be any bitterness between us where he is concerned.

suki1964

leos-mummy wrote: »

So everyone that has children are supposed to have perfect relationships, never argue and never make mistakes? Our son is well cared for! There will never be any bitterness between us where he is concerned.

No where did I imply that

But I think you would be more suited on Jeremy Kyle.

Better still try Relate and learn how to have a grown up relationship with grown ups in a real world and not one thats taking place on forums, face book and text