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Hubby flirting! do i say something?

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  • HannahIOW
    HannahIOW Posts: 2,958 Forumite
    zoeleigh wrote: »
    Yes, I'd go with copying the chat to her partner, although was it facebook chat or messages? If it's messages it's easy enough.
    If it's facebook chat it's easy too, just select the whole of the text and paste it into notepad.
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  • Zoetoes
    Zoetoes Posts: 2,496 Forumite
    Then why even say it? It's not big and it's not clever

    This is not a wanted discussion here, I would suggest that you start another thread regarding this.....oh you already have, suggesting that posters here are encouraging domestic violence.
    If you're going to stalk me, while you're at it can you cut the grass, feed the dog & make sure I've got bread & milk in :D
  • suited-aces
    suited-aces Posts: 1,938 Forumite
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    zoeleigh wrote: »
    This is not a wanted discussion here, I would suggest that you start another thread regarding this.....oh you already have, suggesting that posters here are encouraging domestic violence.
    Correct, I took the discussion to it's proper place, then replied to you with some helpful advice for the op re facebook, it's you who has brought this up again.
    I'm not bad at golf, I just get better value for money when I take more shots!
  • Zoetoes
    Zoetoes Posts: 2,496 Forumite
    HannahIOW wrote: »
    If it's facebook chat it's easy too, just select the whole of the text and paste it into notepad.

    OP would have to log into hubby's facebook for this though? And wouldn't the ho, I mean woman have to be online at the same time for the chat to show?

    I definitely think it should be sent to the partner!
    If you're going to stalk me, while you're at it can you cut the grass, feed the dog & make sure I've got bread & milk in :D
  • suited-aces
    suited-aces Posts: 1,938 Forumite
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    zoeleigh wrote: »
    OP would have to log into hubby's facebook for this though? And wouldn't the ho, I mean woman have to be online at the same time for the chat to show?

    I definitely think it should be sent to the partner!
    Possibly not
    Depending on how recently it happened, facebook have (in the last week) integrated chat and messages, so any chats are saved to the message history, and when you open a chat box, it shows your message history
    I'm not bad at golf, I just get better value for money when I take more shots!
  • Zoetoes
    Zoetoes Posts: 2,496 Forumite
    Correct, I took the discussion to it's proper place, then replied to you with some helpful advice for the op re facebook, it's you who has brought this up again.

    Thank you, I'm sure it will get lots of replies there.

    I will see if I have any chat history now to see how it works...
    If you're going to stalk me, while you're at it can you cut the grass, feed the dog & make sure I've got bread & milk in :D
  • suited-aces
    suited-aces Posts: 1,938 Forumite
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    it's a bit tempermental if you access it via chat, but go to your messages, and look at the message history of the last person you spoke to on chat
    I'm not bad at golf, I just get better value for money when I take more shots!
  • Zoetoes
    Zoetoes Posts: 2,496 Forumite
    Just opened a chat box from yesterday and just says person is offline, I don't use the chat that much though so don't know how it saves.
    If you're going to stalk me, while you're at it can you cut the grass, feed the dog & make sure I've got bread & milk in :D
  • Zoetoes
    Zoetoes Posts: 2,496 Forumite
    it's a bit tempermental if you access it via chat, but go to your messages, and look at the message history of the last person you spoke to on chat

    Mine just has the normal messages, maybe they haven't got round to 'upgrading' all accounts yet
    If you're going to stalk me, while you're at it can you cut the grass, feed the dog & make sure I've got bread & milk in :D
  • suited-aces
    suited-aces Posts: 1,938 Forumite
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    Bizarre, I didn't do anything special to mine? Hopefully OP has more joy
    I'm not bad at golf, I just get better value for money when I take more shots!
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