Hubby flirting! do i say something?

BitterAndTwisted

You said "He said he was married, he likes her but it can't go any further." I would have thought that that was pretty direct and unambiguous. It invites no further discussion about it and that's fair and decent. He probably left it open for you to see because he had nothing to fear as he's not said or done anything that he think he should be ashamed of.

I think you're worrying unnecessarily. It sounds like she was doing all the running and he was enjoying that but when the chips might have been down, he wasn't interested. I wouldn't mind a husband like that.

McKneff

How much are you going to worry while he is away though.

Say something bfore he goes, though otherwise well....................

skintbint_2

if you dont want a full blown row - write it down in a letter and tell him how you felt and how sh*t you felt reading it and that you dont want to row about it but you cant pretend you didnt see it, not your fault. the rip her head off

elastigirl

yes i think he was just enjoying the attention but i am sorry he should be very ashamed with some of the things he was saying like what shall we do in this hotel room then? she replied anything he wanted to do lets see how the night goes!

jayme1

BitterAndTwisted wrote: »

You said "He said he was married, he likes her but it can't go any further." I would have thought that that was pretty direct and unambiguous. It invites no further discussion about it and that's fair and decent. He probably left it open for you to see because he had nothing to fear as he's not said or done anything that he think he should be ashamed of.

I think you're worrying unnecessarily. It sounds like she was doing all the running and he was enjoying that but when the chips might have been down, he wasn't interested. I wouldn't mind a husband like that.

THIS

a joke is a joke this man-theiving-b**** pushed it too far and he quite rightly laid down the law saying he would never do anything to cheat on you.


I am actually quite shocked and appalled at the over the top casual attitude to violence that some of you are suggesting.

I wonder if the people suggesting the disgusting actions would ever suggest a man should slap his wife for exactly the same situation reversed, I would think (and hope) not.

you should be ashamed of yourselves

McKneff

jayme1 wrote: »

THIS

a joke is a joke this man-theiving-b**** pushed it too far and he quite rightly laid down the law saying he would never do anything to cheat on you.


I am actually quite shocked and appalled at the over the top casual attitude to violence that some of you are suggesting.

I wonder if the people suggesting the disgusting actions would ever suggest a man should slap his wife for exactly the same situation reversed, I would think (and hope) not.

you should be ashamed of yourselves

Youre going over the top really, I think all the violence suggested is really tongue in cheek. of course no one would rip anyones head off, or kick someone in the balls, it's just a gut reaction really

skintbint_2

figure of speech - to show you will not be messed around,

confused76

i think i would say something...otherwise i would stew on it forever! perhaps lay out what you read calmly and how that made you feel and see what he has to say for himself. good luck x

LadyMorticia

You're more of a saint than me. :eek:

I'd find it really hard to keep quiet. :eek:

Zoetoes

Say something to her, in fact and to her partner!

Tell your husband you've seen it and have a chat with him about it.