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How to start again with nothing
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It is nice to have someone who understand CCstar, I appreciate all your comments and advice
Im sorry for not replying more today, its a bad day today - not very nice news and things are a bit bad in my head.
Will hopefully post more tomorrow xxx
Take care xStay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.0 -
That is scary. I have felt nuts in my time too and done things I am too ashamed to mention on here due to feeling so miserable. I worked in a mental home and realised I was OK really.Savvy_Sue wrote:Indeed!
We had a friend whose husband was not a nice man, but he could put on a very good act when required. She ended up sectioned, where the staff thought she had a 'model' husband. We all felt she'd have been better off with a real one ... or none at all.An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T
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I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
Don't worry. I can't reply to half the people on the other thread. I am packing and running a house, which is taking my energy.feelinggood wrote:It is nice to have someone who understand CCstar, I appreciate all your comments and advice
Im sorry for not replying more today, its a bad day today - not very nice news and things are a bit bad in my head.
Will hopefully post more tomorrow xxx
Take care xAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
I fully agree there. Misery makes you ill and incapacitated.elona wrote:Maybe if he were a better husband then you would not be ill!An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
Feely someone might have already said it but I'm a lazy sod!
Why don't you start applying for what you are entitled to now? It might give you a little something behind you to get yourself sorted when you leave?
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I believe that the least that you would be entitled to - if nothing else - is half the rise in the value of the property since you were married.
If you are unable to work because of a disability there may possibly be an element of spousal maintenance as well.
You need to seek some legal advice.No reliance should be placed on the above.0 -
Savvy_Sue wrote:Abuse does not have to be physical to be abuse.
Do you think he will be physically abusive if you force him to face the issues and say you are thinking of leaving?
Even if he won't come with you, you can go to Relate on your own, and they might also help you work out where to go next.
That is a good idea.
My husband shouted and ranted whenever I brought up any of his faults at our joint session at Relate, yet I had to take any criticism about me which I took on board, if it was true. He does that when I try to discuss things at home. I don't know how FG husband reacts but shouting and ranting isn't pleasant.An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
It takes two to make a marriage. I was thinking that for years. He has to do his share of making it happy too!feelinggood wrote:He doesn't do anything to me, if i was a batter wife it'd be ok
if i wasn't ill, things would betterAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
Are you abusive towards him?feelinggood wrote:hes not abusive, its meAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0 -
CCStar wrote:That is a good idea.
My husband shouted and ranted whenever I brought up any of his faults at our joint session at Relate, yet I had to take any criticism about me which I took on board, if it was true. He does that when I try to discuss things at home. I don't know how FG husband reacts but shouting and ranting isn't pleasant.
Its not that much shouting. Well, there is some, but mainly is the guilt trips, rolling his eyes, sighing, ignoring me, putting me down, bringing things fromt he past up etcStay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.0
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