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How to start again with nothing

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  • TNG
    TNG Posts: 6,930 Forumite
    If your mum is going to disown you when you leave, you're best off at least trying to talk to her now, while you can.

    There's no point not talking to her, then her finding out that you've left so that you have no chance of giving her your view of things.

    Best wishes
    :dance:There's a real buzz about the neighbourhood :dance:
  • TNG wrote:
    If your mum is going to disown you when you leave, you're best off at least trying to talk to her now, while you can.

    There's no point not talking to her, then her finding out that you've left so that you have no chance of giving her your view of things.

    Best wishes
    But, if I talk to her, she will tell OH that I am planning on leaving.
    That would make things very very hard for me, it would mean I'd have to go sooner than I'm ready for.
    I know that if I talk to OH, he'll managed to make it so I have to beg him to let me stay or something, even if I don't want to.
    Damn guilt.
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Spikey_2
    Spikey_2 Posts: 14,119 Forumite
    FG..no matter what happens ..... you know who your friends are and who you can depend on..... xxxxxxxxxx we are here xxx
    Use your judgement, and above all, be honest with yourself. :)
    I walk with the world & the world walks with me!
    I don't make bad choices!!! Other people just fail to see my GENIUS !!!! :D
  • TNG
    TNG Posts: 6,930 Forumite
    But, if I talk to her, she will tell OH that I am planning on leaving.

    Ah. Do you have any other family you can trust not to say anything?
    :dance:There's a real buzz about the neighbourhood :dance:
  • Thanks Spikey - but there is a difference between having some mates online that you can chat to, and having a true friend who can really help xx
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • TNG wrote:
    Ah. Do you have any other family you can trust not to say anything?

    Nope :)
    I'm the evil, bad one in the family, I'm sure they'd all like to talk about me :)
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Spikey_2
    Spikey_2 Posts: 14,119 Forumite
    Thanks Spikey - but there is a difference between having some mates online that you can chat to, and having a true friend who can really help xx

    there are mates and there are mates.....
    Use your judgement, and above all, be honest with yourself. :)
    I walk with the world & the world walks with me!
    I don't make bad choices!!! Other people just fail to see my GENIUS !!!! :D
  • And I've not got any genuine mates :)
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Spikey_2
    Spikey_2 Posts: 14,119 Forumite
    And I've not got any genuine mates :)

    you quite sure about that?:o
    Use your judgement, and above all, be honest with yourself. :)
    I walk with the world & the world walks with me!
    I don't make bad choices!!! Other people just fail to see my GENIUS !!!! :D
  • Spikey wrote:
    you quite sure about that?:o

    Yeah I am :o
    Theres no one I can depend on but me :)
    And I need a drink :-/
    I'm going to wait till 2pm tho.
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
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