Am I being awful?

ailuro2

geri1965 wrote: »

Trollop?

(just testing the filter)

!!!!!!

floozy

!!!!!

slapper

mistress-in-waiting

Arkwright's stores ( cos she's open all hours, lol)

skank



Ohh, it lets quite a lot through doesn't it?

Just as well I'm far too polite to suggest the OP is any of the above.

The good old fashioned name for women of dubious repute gets blocked out though, so good to see the filter is working on some levels.

mrcow

topsym wrote: »

So nobody on here has thought impure thoughts about anyone, whether they be a superstar or the man next door or on the beach on holiday. Most people must be unfaithful in thoughts then!

I'm sure everybody has passing thoughts like that.

The vast majority of us will also have form. Sexual history in the past. Unanswered questions. Unfinished relationships. I for one have had plenty! (Including a few guys who "chased" after me for many, many years).

The difference now is though that I've moved on. Any men I found attractive 20 years ago certainly won't be the same now. If I was curious abut how they've turned out, then a quick visit round their house to see their current lifestyle would probably most certainly cure that. There's usually a good reason why I don't see them any more.

I think there's a bigger question here. What you're suggesting is devious, disloyal and secretive. With such deceit, you'd be betraying those whom you profess to love.

Wake up. This guy isn't going to want you (if he does, it won't be for anything other than a quick feel up). If he did, he would never have let you get away 12 years ago.

You need to rediscover your self-esteem. Are you really that unhappy with your current life? Why do you think that is?

neneromanova

Don't feed the troll ladies and gents. They can bite :money:

Mrss_3

I am truly incensed by you - i am boiling with anger.

My husband has a silly ex like you who "cant get him out her head" "wonders if he is the one " BLAH BLAH BLAH and it ( she ) has caused me so much pain and upset with her existence that i hate her with a passion.
It is all very innocent on my husbands side - she is the one who sends the immature texts ( he shows and tells me about them ) but the fact is she is a sad !!!!! who incidentally is also married with children who my husband slept with 20 years ago before we met and still hankers after him and flirts and suggest meeting "for old times sake "

You are this other women - I only hope this man has enough balls to show his wife what you are and to keep away from you.

You are a disgrace to women.

flossy_splodge

Sorry to be naive but can someone please explain the use of the word 'trout'?
Seriously. The others listed I am conversant with :rotfl:but I've never heard 'trout'.
I love words and really want to know this so please help someone as others seem to be familiar with it being used in the way it is.
Oh, is it because something 'fishy' is going on?:o

flossy_splodge

Mrss wrote: »

I am truly incensed by you - i am boiling with anger.

My husband has a silly ex like you who "cant get him out her head" "wonders if he is the one " BLAH BLAH BLAH and it ( she ) has caused me so much pain and upset with her existence that i hate her with a passion.
It is all very innocent on my husbands side - she is the one who sends the immature texts ( he shows and tells me about them ) but the fact is she is a sad !!!!! who incidentally is also married with children who my husband slept with 20 years ago before we met and still hankers after him and flirts and suggest meeting "for old times sake "

You are this other women - I only hope this man has enough balls to show his wife what you are and to keep away from you.

You are a disgrace to women.

Sorry for your own experiences but in this case, it takes two!
I believe HE contacted HER?
And sometimes sad stories do have happy ever afters, just not often!:(

shellsuit

flossy_splodge wrote: »

Sorry to be naive but can someone please explain the use of the word 'trout'?
Seriously. The others listed I am conversant with :rotfl:but I've never heard 'trout'.
I love words and really want to know this so please help someone as others seem to be familiar with it being used in the way it is.
Oh, is it because something 'fishy' is going on?:o

It's just a name calling word. Nothing to it really lol

The OP's attitude stinks though, so think of it that way

Bitsy_Beans

I am wondering why if the chemistry was so good between you was this bloke happy to [STRIKE]shag[/STRIKE] see other people with the occasional snog from you if you happened to be available. Not so much as friends with benefits more like sloppy seconds :eek:

I am suprised if you had such an electric feeling together you wouldn't pursue something like this when you had the chance and likewise for him. the fact that you say there was such chemistry between you and yet you never dated bar a quick fumble now and again speaks volumes. So the no dating in Uni - was it his suggestion or yours? Because if it was his it sounds to me like your feelings are a wee bit stronger than his

It would be niave to suggest that we never think the grass is greener but there is a difference between wistfully looking back with rose tinted specs to arranging to meet up, especially when you are so carefully building up expectation and desire after such a long absence.

shellsuit

flossy_splodge wrote: »

Sorry for your own experiences but in this case, it takes two!
I believe HE contacted HER?
And sometimes sad stories do have happy ever afters, just not often!:(

Basically, I got in touch with a guy i went to uni with 12 years ago recently

She contacted him.

Pepzofio

flossy_splodge wrote: »

Sorry for your own experiences but in this case, it takes two!
I believe HE contacted HER?
And sometimes sad stories do have happy ever afters, just not often!:(

Nope - OP states "I got in touch with him"... Although from what he is reported to have said he doesn't sound entirely innocent, I agree - unless OP is delusional and putting her own 'spin' on things.