how to stop loving someone and let them go

mineallmine

hi denton - how ya doing? what are you positives for today?

Mine is having dinner cooked for me.

izzybusy23

Hey Wendy

Can I join in your daily positives as me and you going through the same kind of thing.

Well so far today I haven't cried for the first time in two days! Thought I got through the first six months of my separation remarkably well and hardly cried after the inital first few weeks and was very strong but as my last post said ex has now moved in with girl he left us for less than two months after begging to come home; so kind of feel totally used but I guess another positive for me today is that he has only gone back to her as I wouldn't have him back so she is obviously 2nd best and that gives me some comfort.

Take care
Eve x

denton6

my positives for today, i get to give my boys a big hug tonight, i did see them for 5 mins yesterday when they were with there dad, cos they wanted there ds dropped off. 9 year old was crying on the phone when he rang me to ask if i could drop them off for them. maybe boys are finding the situation harder than i thought. they seem to have just taken it all in there stride daddy having a new girl friend. i went to my maths course yesterday . but wow the homework was hard. only 5 questions but so long since i did maths they were hard. i did attempt to do them though and that is what i took the course for to learn. hugs if anyone needs it. only just over a hour till i get my cuddles lol

RacyRed

Well done on tackling the maths Wendy, you are one brave lady :T

Enjoy the hugs when your boys get home, are you making them something special for tea?

squidge60

Hi hope you are thinking of yourself !:) Evenings seem to be worst for people but as you have access to online dont forget everything you want to know/do is available (including dating sites)yes i know :eek:but theres no harm looking My positive for today is i have done cottage pie for tonights tea and enough for tomorrow.yay Take care x

mineallmine

hey there.
seems like your boys are loyal and are trying to fit in.
why not give them a big treat when next home - like a home picnic on a rug at home. or pretend camping at home. they need you to show them what a great mum you are. go!

dumpy

Hi folks

I think I missed yesterday but my positive for today was that I passed a test I had to do for work.

Catch you all tomorrow.

denton6

dumpy wrote: »

Hi folks

I think I missed yesterday but my positive for today was that I passed a test I had to do for work.

Catch you all tomorrow.

well done, all our little positives do really add up. my positives for today, have been for coffee with a very good friend, the sun is shining and .......... im sure i can think of some more later hopefully

denton6

a positive for yesterday is i didnt ask the boys when they came home from there dad's if she had stayed over. i'm sure the answer would have been yes,but i didnt ask. i didnt ask because even though it is none of my buisness it kills and i didnt need the upset.

beachbaby_2

Hi, Wendy hope you,re feeling ok today. It's amazing the support you get from the people on this forum. I hope, like me, you find it helps.
Thinking of you. x