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Too young to have my baby?

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  • fireflycatcher
    fireflycatcher Posts: 2,402 Forumite
    Fang wrote: »
    How delightfully mature. Good lord.

    .....**Sigh***.

    :eek:
    ♫ Nobody's Perfect ♫
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Fang wrote: »
    How delightfully mature. Good lord.

    Leave her alone :mad:.
  • **confuzzled**
    **confuzzled** Posts: 4,228 Forumite
    Fang wrote: »
    How delightfully mature. Good lord.

    Oooooooo does that make me immature too(at the grand old age of 26!)?? :p I had exactly the same thought when I found out I was pg too:D:rotfl:
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • jimbms
    jimbms Posts: 1,100 Forumite
    Fang wrote: »
    How delightfully mature. Good lord.
    She who must be obeyed is 44 and still uses the fact she is a redhead as a good excuse for anything evil she does. it is one of the things us men just have to endure.
    Approach her; adore her. Behold her; worship her. Caress her; indulge her. Kiss her; pleasure her. Kneel to her; lavish her. Assert to her; let her guide you. Obey her as you know how; Surrender is so wonderful! For Caroline my Goddess.
  • hngrymummy
    hngrymummy Posts: 955 Forumite
    do you mean pig as in eating loads, or pig as in being a little bit horrid?
    I'm eating little and often right now, so I probably look like I'm being a bit piggish. And I'm being horrible to DH, who can't do anything right at the mo. ;)
    If having different experiences, thoughts and ideas to you, or having an opinion that you don't understand, makes me a troll, then I am proud to be a 100% crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living Troll. :hello:
  • jimbms
    jimbms Posts: 1,100 Forumite
    hngrymummy wrote: »
    do you mean pig as in eating loads, or pig as in being a little bit horrid?
    I'm eating little and often right now, so I probably look like I'm being a bit piggish. And I'm being horrible to DH, who can't do anything right at the mo. ;)
    Send him my sympathy, I know exactly how he feels. :p
    Approach her; adore her. Behold her; worship her. Caress her; indulge her. Kiss her; pleasure her. Kneel to her; lavish her. Assert to her; let her guide you. Obey her as you know how; Surrender is so wonderful! For Caroline my Goddess.
  • Fang_3
    Fang_3 Posts: 7,602 Forumite
    Oooooooo does that make me immature too(at the grand old age of 26!)?? :p I had exactly the same thought when I found out I was pg too:D:rotfl:

    Not the eating. Eat all your like. It was the hoping that her brother moves out because she wants his space. I suppose I'm old fashioned in thinking that you should have a home and a steady income and be in a serious committed relationship with the father (or mother) before bringing a life into the world.
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Fang wrote: »
    Not the eating. Eat all your like. It was the hoping that her brother moves out because she wants his space. I suppose I'm old fashioned in thinking that you should have a home and a steady income and be in a serious committed relationship with the father (or mother) before bringing a life into the world.

    Well ideally, yes. But she's taking on the reponsibility of her actions now, and the best place for her to be is around her family getting support and with a stable roof over her head. I wish i had such a supportive family when i had my son.
  • Fang_3
    Fang_3 Posts: 7,602 Forumite
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    Well ideally, yes. But she's taking on the reponsibility of her actions now, and the best place for her to be is around her family getting support and with a stable roof over her head. I wish i had such a supportive family when i had my son.

    I totally agree, but I think even joking about trying to get her brother to move out shows a level of immaturity that doesn't grasp the magnitude of becoming a mother.
  • **confuzzled**
    **confuzzled** Posts: 4,228 Forumite
    Fang wrote: »
    Not the eating. Eat all your like.No worries I am doing:pIt was the hoping that her brother moves out because she wants his space. I suppose I'm old fashioned in thinking that you should have a home and a steady income and be in a serious committed relationship with the father (or mother) before bringing a life into the world.
    *ahem* my brother said the same thing when I made noises about moving out....he wasn't expecting a baby and nor was his girlfriend:p needless to say I stayed an extra few months just to pee him off:rotfl:
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    Well ideally, yes. But she's taking on the reponsibility of her actions now, and the best place for her to be is around her family getting support and with a stable roof over her head.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^what she said :)
    Fang wrote: »
    I totally agree, but I think even joking about trying to get her brother to move out shows a level of immaturity that doesn't grasp the magnitude of becoming a mother.
    Oh puh-lease! I joke about my hubby moving out all the time, I've even asked MIL if she'll take him back until baby is here....unfortunately she declined due to the 12 month guarantee expiring:( Ho hum.....maybe I should just make his life hell instead:p:rotfl:

    oh and fwiw they are in a committed relationship imo...yes they're young but they've taken a much more sensible approach to the situation than some of my friends have done/would do in their situation!
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
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