Internet Infidelities

*Louise*

Lily...such an open and honest post, I hope things keep getting better for you xxx

Button - you're right not to want to sweep it under the carpet, that would be the green light for him just to carry on doing what he wants. Cool, calm and detatched is what you have to aim for now (difficult, I know) and I think counselling is a good idea, at the very least his reaction to that suggestion will gague how much he wants to repair things with you

xxx

LillythePink

Hey Louise and Jackie

Thanks for your comments, things are ok for us now - but there is always that little doubt in the back of the head which will always be there I guess - it's all about trust - hard to earn but easy to lose.

Its just a shame that we can't see in their heads to know what they are really thinking.

Button - if you can stand it, you need a frank and honest discussion with him - you have to try and get him to be totally honest no matter if what he says really hurts - I think only then will you be able to make a proper and informed decision about what YOU want to do - it's all very well him saying that he wants to save the relationship (if that is what he says) but he needs to prove it - and I think that the first step is honesty.

If he is completely honest with you about what he has done/not done etc then at least it is something - but (and I hate to say it) it is unlikely that he will be completely honest as he may think that if he is it's the end.

How is your relationship - sorry how was your relationship before you found out about this? Did you have any inkling that there was anything lacking either physically (sorry) or mentally?

I really feel for you and I hope that you're ok (you know what I mean)

Lilly
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