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Creepy Man making life hard! LONG
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You're doing a great job here hun. Nobody can see hindsight.0
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Hi AliasGirl You have done the right thing love, and I do understand how distressing this has been for you and still is. As you say it has been a very long time. I have a son who was abused many years ago, in a church connection, and there were folk there who looked at me as if I was the one with the problem !!!! Take good care of yourself love keep safe and I send you a big hug.xxDo a little kindness every day.;)0
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well done alisa girl:T. I totally trust you and know you are ensuring this is dealt with and quite understand you don't want to add to your stress by continuing to be explicite.
This is alot for any young person to deal with and you every reason to be proud with how you have handled your self. And from now on, you have a wealth on invaluable experience to hand on to others in the same situation.
Remember - non of this man's behaviour is your fault.I try to take one day at a time, but sometimes several days attack me at once0 -
Thank you everyone for your support, it has helped alot
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tell him to do one and then call the policeReplies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you0
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Well done, aliasgirl! I'm really, really impressed with you for being able to write all this down then take action.
Please don't listen to people who 'demand' you take action etc. Obviously it's right that you have told on him, but you have NO responsibility for his behaviour, whatever he does or has done in the past.May all your dots fall silently to the ground.0 -
AliasGirl,
Well done. Now that you have had some advice etc, you may feel safer if you edit your first post to remove the majority of the text.:heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.0 -
Good luck - keep shouting till you get heard, as you have learned people often don't take this sort of thing seriously. Don't get side tracked by others wanting to minimise this behaviour...0
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That's terrible!
What are all those people - scout master, your parents - waiting for? That guy seems like an accident waiting to happen, go to the police, isn't stalking illegal in the UK?From Poland...with love.
They are (they're) sitting on the floor.
Their books are lying on the floor.
The books are sitting just there on the floor.0 -
Well done, AliasGirl. This can't have been easy to tackle but I'm absolutely sure you've done the right thing. I fully understand you being guarded - don't feel you have to account to anyone here. Good Luck.0
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