Inappropriate behaviour from a child in dd's class. How would you feel?

jamespir

poet123 wrote: »

Because a marriage or long term relationship should be an equal partnership, not a dictatorship? .....just a thought.

that doenset make him a dictator at all

poet123

jamespir wrote: »

that doenset make him a dictator at all

It doesn't make it an equal partnership either.

Bitsy_Beans

jamespir wrote: »

not at all i just like women to be women thats all im fed up of all this politically correct bull

jamespir wrote: »

not at all i like women
i just dont like feminist's

So Equal Opportunities for ALL (not just women) is policially correct bull??? I hope to goodness you don't have a daughter because you wouldn't want her being offered the same opportunities as your son <rollseyes>

why does your attitude assume all women are feminists? I believe in equal pay for the same job for all workers regardless of their sex. I believe in equal opportunities for everyone regardless of their sex. I don't think that necessarily makes me a feminist just someone who things everyone is entitled to a fair shot.

I also believe that a marriage is a partnership, one where decisions are made jointly and that includes the handling of finances. My H brings in the majority of the money into our house. However it's not just his money, it's earnt to provide for the whole family. I think it's incredibly selfish (and a wee bit childish) to act like "this is mine and that's yours".

Gingham_Ribbon

thatgirlsam wrote: »

its probably just a silly little boy !

aww he is only 5 you say ?

i would say thats quite a normal thing for a young boy , my son is 4 and shows me and my dd who is 10 his willy and bum , talks about poo and wee a lot and thinks willies are hilarious in general !

i have spoken to him and said please keep your willy private and word to that effect , but becuase my dd laughed at him once he thinks flsahing his willy will make her laugh

to my knowledge he has not done this at school , but please don't read too much into it

some boys are very silly at this age

Excellent post. I'd add though that this CAN be a sign of abuse and for that reason I'd tread very carefully and allow school to handle it unless the child is touched in an inappropriate way.

Gingham_Ribbon

jamespir wrote: »

thats nice for them it's not abuse its just silly women getting themselves in a tiss because some men dont agree with equal oppurtunities

OMG, I had no idea you were such a bigot jamespir.

jamespir

Bitsy_Beans wrote: »

So Equal Opportunities for ALL (not just women) is policially correct bull??? I hope to goodness you don't have a daughter because you wouldn't want her being offered the same opportunities as your son <rollseyes>

why does your attitude assume all women are feminists? I believe in equal pay for the same job for all workers regardless of their sex. I believe in equal opportunities for everyone regardless of their sex. I don't think that necessarily makes me a feminist just someone who things everyone is entitled to a fair shot.

I also believe that a marriage is a partnership, one where decisions are made jointly and that includes the handling of finances. My H brings in the majority of the money into our house. However it's not just his money, it's earnt to provide for the whole family. I think it's incredibly selfish (and a wee bit childish) to act like "this is mine and that's yours".

come on we all know that women want to take over the world they like to be in control and they hate it when there men refuse they also hate it when men are in controll

its great to have an equal partnership in marriage share and share alike but i can catergorically guarentee if your hubbys late from work youll be on the blower wondering where he is if he hasnt rung you demainding to know why hes late

women call it caring the actual term is controlling !!!!! therefore that doesent make it equal

jamespir

Bitsy_Beans wrote: »

However it's not just his money, it's earnt to provide for the whole family. I think it's incredibly selfish (and a wee bit childish) to act like "this is mine and that's yours".

i dont think all women are feminists at all

you sat this is mine this is yours is childish and silly i do agree but ive read over 100 post from both husbands and wives on here who state that

they paid there partners debt or lent the money for a holiday or a car and that they havent paid them back yet when the othere decides to spend there money on themselves it suddenly becomes OUR money

galvanizersbaby

jamespir wrote: »

come on we all know that women want to take over the world they like to be in control and they hate it when there men refuse they also hate it when men are in controll

its great to have an equal partnership in marriage share and share alike but i can catergorically guarentee if your hubbys late from work youll be on the blower wondering where he is if he hasnt rung you demainding to know why hes late

women call it caring the actual term is controlling !!!!! therefore that doesent make it equal

:rotfl:Jamespir - I think you are either a wind up merchant or a very young unmarried man

Some women actually earn more than their male partners these days you know!
Also in many cases (mine included) I am never first back from work!

jamespir

Gingham_Ribbon wrote: »

OMG, I had no idea you were such a bigot jamespir.

im not a bigot at all i just see things how they are

women want equal oppurtunites thats fine but

lets look at a few things where that fails

if i were to hit my partner i would be locked up and branded a domestic abuser

my partner hits me im told to grow up and be a man


i get a women home we both get stupidly drunk she waskes up in the morning realises shes made a mistake and crys rape goes to the police im hauled up then most likely sent to prison as i cant prove that she agreed to sex as we were both drunk

on the other hand she takes me home get's me stupidly drunk has sex with me without my will i go to the poilce and they will most likely say what you complaining for


so how is that fair

also at work how many women have won sexual harrasment cases compared to men
probably loads

you see women like to make the rules and scream blue murder if there broke yet if a man is on the recieving end the goalpost get moved

jamespir

galvanizersbaby wrote: »

:rotfl:Jamespir - I think you are either a wind up merchant or a very young unmarried man

Some women actually earn more than their male partners these days you know!
Also in many cases (mine included) I am never first back from work!

im nether
youre a case in point then
its not equal is it if you earn more than your partner and you taken great delight in bragging about it