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OP - how are you getting on?Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.0
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feelinggood wrote: »OP - how are you getting on?
I very much doubt she'll be keen to post on here again sadly:o0 -
post deletedMFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months0 -
BARGAINHUNTER! wrote: »No, I have no problem posting on here again. Im doing fine - ive accepted the situation and taken everyones comments on board. Yes, I made a mistake, but who can hand on heart say they have never made a mistake before? Im sure in time my heart will heal, im just going to have to wait for that to happen. I did not set out to have a relationship with a married man - I would have had to have been a very callous person to do so and callous I am not. I am actually a very nice person who has just been walked all over by someone who I loved, and I thought loved me back. If his wife does take him back then more fool her - she is going to have to spend the rest of her life looking over her shoulder to check he is not up to his old tricks.
TBH I think he has a problem with relationships, he enjoys flirting with women and now he is 'single' god help other women out there as I think there are going to be a lot more broken hearts.
I consider myself to have had a lucky escape and this has been one big wake up call for me. Once I have finally got over this I need to find myself a decent man to love and to love me back.
Good on you :beer:
And I hope you do find someone who has a less complicated past - but seriously, good on you for waking up and getting out of it.:cool:0 -
post deletedMFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months0 -
BARGAINHUNTER! wrote: »The trouble is - how do I even start looking for this person? Not that I want to do it now of course!
You don't. You have to be confident in yourself and happy to live your own or you'll be looking for the wrong thing.
Good luck and don't forget to ask for those divorce certificates before handing over the keys to your heart.Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants - Michael Pollan
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BARGAINHUNTER! wrote: »The trouble is - how do I even start looking for this person? Not that I want to do it now of course!
Just give yourself time to get over this bloke - but at least you know to run a mile if a married man comes onto you.
Seriously - I could never be attracted to someone who is married
I wouldn't feel flattered, I would just despise them. They are low..
.. I wouldn't want to play second fiddle to anyone. And that's how you should see it.
Why be number 2, when you can be number 1? :j:cool:0 -
post deletedMFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months0 -
BARGAINHUNTER! wrote: »But where will I find a decent bloke?
Why are you so concerned with finding a decent bloke?
Just have time to lick your wounds and get yourself back to yourself, then worry about where to find a bloke.
As I said in my previous post, you really do come across like you have extremely low self esteem. I'm willing to bet there was huge amounts of jealousy coming from you - either about the ex wife, or any other females in general?
Why not get a hobby, or start the gym or something, to give yourself something to do - instead of focussing your efforts on a man.
Bought is to buy. Brought is to bring.0 -
post deletedMFW 2011 challenge - Aim: Overpay £414.26 a month/£5,000 a year. Overpayment Total to date: £414.26:jMortgage start 28/9/07 £46,217.00 :TMortgage balance as of 25/05/11 £24,490.58 :T
Interest saved as of 25/05/11: £2,849.84 Projected term reduction as of 25/05/11: 9 years 11 months0
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