Need some urgent advice

Oldernotwiser

BARGAINHUNTER! wrote: »

You think he has just ended things with me by text? After 14 months together?

Basically, yes. 14 months isn't really that long to be together either. Sorry.

Pee

Thinking about this, I have had a horrible thought. If his wife / soon to be ex wife knew about the affair she then gets the chance to do to you what you did to her... and since it's only about a year or so since she learnt of the affair, Christmas might just have been about messing things up for you.

I do think that you could do so much better.

hannah-j_3

Pee wrote: »

Thinking about this, I have had a horrible thought. If his wife / soon to be ex wife knew about the affair she then gets the chance to do to you what you did to her... and since it's only about a year or so since she learnt of the affair, Christmas might just have been about messing things up for you.

I do think that you could do so much better.

I would have expected the wife to have more dignity than that, just my opinion. The wife has clearly been through hell and back but the sympathy here is with the mistress and her now broken heart.

Mips

hannah-j wrote: »

I would have expected the wife to have more dignity than that, just my opinion. The wife has clearly been through hell and back but the sympathy here is with the mistress and her now broken heart.

I have no sympathy whatsoever for the Mistress, the husband/boyfriend.

My sympathy is with the wife left holding the baby so to speak.

And you know, I am reading through the forums at all the people who have been cheated on.. and I find it quite unbelievable that amongst all this heartache over the past month we can see on the boards... a 'Mistress' would post like this!

hannah-j_3

Dippychick wrote: »

I have no sympathy whatsoever for the Mistress, the husband/boyfriend.

My sympathy is with the wife left holding the baby so to speak.

And you know, I am reading through the forums at all the people who have been cheated on.. and I find it quite unbelievable that amongst all this heartache over the past month we can see on the boards... a 'Mistress' would post like this!

I couldn't agree more

emsywoo123

Dippychick wrote: »

Grow up. How old are you? Are you even married?

Good God how rude are you?

Mips

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Good God how rude are you?

Good god how ignorant are you?

But hey ho, if your bloke cheats on you .. I am sure you will find it in your heart to forgive the woman he cheats with.. perhaps you could become good friends

Mely

Dippychick wrote: »

Good god how ignorant are you?

But hey ho, if your bloke cheats on you .. I am sure you will find it in your heart to forgive the woman he cheats with.. perhaps you could become good friends

:T:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

emsywoo123

I assume this venom for the OP comes from experience of being cheated on?

aliasojo

Dippychick wrote: »

Good god how ignorant are you?

But hey ho, if your bloke cheats on you .. I am sure you will find it in your heart to forgive the woman he cheats with.. perhaps you could become good friends

Dippy, everyone is allowed an opinion whether you agree with it or not. I think you've been too personal telling ems to grow up and asking if she's even married just because she has an opinion that doesn't sit well with you.

You can hold the moral high ground by all means but it doesn't give you the right to be insulting imo.

Sorry, don't want to cause an argument but I think you've been unfair.