Need some urgent advice

DX2

Dippychick wrote: »

*says absolutely nothing*

Please do I don't want to trawl through all these posts did he dump her, or did she dump him Just a quick run down thanks

emsywoo123

grey_lady wrote: »

I've been following the thread and I did wonder if you do have low self-esteem but on the other hand I wonder if you're just a bit younger? than the more older and cynical of us!

Trust me, most of us have been naive about men that we thought we loved and that we thought loved us, we made excuses to ourselves and our friends. But eventually there was a better future relationship down the road, because we're worth it :-)

LOL indeed we are!
I thought maybe the OP was quite young too, but reading back, I'm sure she mentions she has a child of 15, so not a teenager........:p

emsywoo123

DX2 wrote: »

Please do I don't want to trawl through all these posts did he dump her, or did she dump him Just a quick run down thanks

He dumped her, she was "heartbroken" about 48 hours ago, huge debate, she's now "over him" and talking about next victim (tongue in cheek people)
*kicks herself* I'll never get this time back ya know :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

emsywoo123

Dippychick wrote: »

*says absolutely nothing*

Mmmm, except by saying that, you are though aren't you :rolleyes:

Despair as I may over OP's actions, I genuinely do not regret or disagree with anything I posted, and am glad for my contribution, despite it bucking the trend.
Awwww, my ma would be so proud, me standing up against the majority defending someone that I thought needed defense!:rotfl::rotfl:

Mips

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Mmmm, except by saying that, you are though aren't you :rolleyes:

Despair as I may over OP's actions, I genuinely do not regret or disagree with anything I posted, and am glad for my contribution, despite it bucking the trend.
Awwww, my ma would be so proud, me standing up against the majority defending someone that I thought needed defense!:rotfl::rotfl:

Like you said, you'll never get this time back

daska

LOL - maybe it's the poor wifeys with husbands that keep their morals in their trousers that need defending - wasn't it only 24 hours ago that BH was heartbroken?

(spoken as a former poor wifey )

DX2

Dippychick wrote: »

Like you said, you'll never get this time back

About never getting time back you sig does that say saber or sober

hannah-j_3

Am just wondering why this thread was in here and not the Arms - synical thought :rolleyes:

*does a Dippychick and says nothing* (else)

Mips

DX2 wrote: »

About never getting time back you sig does that say saber or sober

Does completely say 'completely' or 'campletely'

Mrs_Moc

I genuinely think the OP has self esteem issues. I dont think she is now saying she wants someone else, its just her thoughts trying to rationalise how everything is going to be ok. It will never be ok until you realise you dont need anybody other than yourself to find happiness.

I think some people are being too hard here.

And I dont condone affairs at all. But she is hurting!!