Partner cheated and left - what do I do?

Lilacblue

Hey Ladies

Springclean - thank you for your comments. Well done on etting published...that must be brilliant. Thing is, i don't have the imagination to write anything interesting. I could do kids, affairs, abba, Kirstie Bl**din' Allsop but that's your lot! What kind of thing do you write yourself?

Whitelillies - I'm so sorry you're having a bad time. Make no mistake, i have had my own 'smash his face in' moments (and in fact, I did do something quite shameful along those lines). Come on girl, spill the beans, you'll feel better if you tell us about it.

I am still watching Love Actually. Here's a question...who is most delicious in this film a)Hugh Grant b)Alan Rickman c)Colin Firth. Or put another way, Who Would You If You Had To?
x

Lilacblue

For the record, Colin Firth, although he always seems to play the same bashful, English-gent type. Except in mama mia of course, but that doesn't count

springclean

dark fiction/horror

and Hugh Grant :-)

whitelillies

Definately Colin Firth everytime (i wish) lol

Lilacblue

Hands off Colin Firth, he's mine. I said it first!!! You're left with Alan Rickman, sorry :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Thanks for the laughs girls, gotta go though as my daughter has just got up.

Laters! x

thorsoak

Sad ole bird that I am .....I like Bill Nighy :rolleyes::D

The other two .....pretty boys

larmy16

Is Liam Neeson in this film? If so, surely he is worth a gander?

Lilac Blue, you are one amazing lady, seriously, I would be in bits if I had been through such a situation as yours. I hope you manage to have a good Christmas despite all this and that the New Year brings you the right decision, the right course, the right path for you and your children. XX

duchy

Lilacblue wrote: »

this morning I came down expecting him to be dressed, ready to go, maybe having done some 'penance' jobs like give the kids breakfast/empty the dishwasher etc, but no, he's LYING ON THE SOFA WATCHING TELLY!! :mad: Suffice to say, he left shortly after!


On a different note, something has been bothering me, ladies. Kirstie Allsop and her bl**ding Homemade Christmas. Should I start a new thread dedicated to this? For some reason I am very opinionated on this subject. Will update later!

For those of you online, switch off for a bit, switch on the telly and enjoy Love Actually with me. Aaaah, good times! x

Oh well guess he can freeze in the car from now on-What a muppet LOL

I haven't seen the Homemade Christmas thing.......but I suspect your thread will be great. Gave you started it yet ?

BTW I know I owe you a PM haven't forgotten just don't want to reply to yours in a hurry as there's a few things in it I want to respond to

rosered1963

Hope Lilac is ok today

Mrs_Moc

Hi Lilac

I've just read your whole thread and I must say you are amazing and doing very well. Your posts have been very inspirational to me. Im also going through a marriage ending and determined never to go back! Im into week 3. Slightly different situation from yours in that he never cheated that I know of, but he was alcoholic and was very abusive. I called it a day and threw him out as I had enough of our 4 kids witnessing stuff they should never have to see.

I will continue reading your thread, as I have taken alot of strength from your posts and the amazing advice your getting on here.

I also find your writing style a pleasure to read and very witty.

Well done!!!