Another saturday in alone... :(

pinkie_pie

alyth - thank you for your post.

I started a post about how the others are all very young, and those who aren't have teenagers, but in truth it's what makes me know it's just me that doesn't fit in. I don't know why because I do try and I don't think I'm offensive! In a way I wish there was something I did wrong because noones ever told me and it could be something I'd change. If I smelt or swore a lot!

But I simply think people don't take to me at all... and I'm not a solitary person at all, I'm miserable on my own. Although having said that, I have recently prefered solitude to a 'new' relationship, after a long shift I'm happier slobbing around than having to put some effort in!

(is Gumtree not for selling things??!)

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

Just quickly skimming through & a few things have struck me

the doctor can offer more than medication what about counselling/information about groups in the area

what about learning to drive as a hobby ?? I know it is expensive but if you passed your test & got a rundaround car the world would be your oyster

make a list of all the positives bet they outweight the negatives

health
healthy children
independance
your own space
control of the remote
no smelly underpants/socks to wash ( except the kids )
your age
comfortable pants
the whole bed to yourself
26 child free weekends a year ( yes I have kids sometimes a break is good )

pinkie_pie

mumofjusttwo/worriedsik - south england coudn't be further if I tried!!!! Lovely idea though!

choille - I'll have a look at that. Oh and B&Ts music site!

mumofjusttwo

See I don't even know what B&T music is?

Well I live in the south east anyway

kimmee

<

---

wilds of East Anglia :eek:

pookienoodle

snowedunderitall wrote: »

alyth - thank you for your post.

I started a post about how the others are all very young, and those who aren't have teenagers, but in truth it's what makes me know it's just me that doesn't fit in. I don't know why because I do try and I don't think I'm offensive! In a way I wish there was something I did wrong because noones ever told me and it could be something I'd change. If I smelt or swore a lot!

But I simply think people don't take to me at all... and I'm not a solitary person at all, I'm miserable on my own. Although having said that, I have recently prefered solitude to a 'new' relationship, after a long shift I'm happier slobbing around than having to put some effort in!

(is Gumtree not for selling things??!)

I understand what you mean,
I don't think there is anything wrong with me as I get on well with fellow workers but it never progresses past the pleasentries.
I had hoped when my little boy started preschool this year I might make friends with a fellow mum but unfortunatly the ones that go for a coffee together go on the day that I work and D.S's nanny takes him to school.

pookienoodle

South Wales here btw.

worriedsik

yes yes i know but listen girls..........................we need a board/ forum /thread called lonely hearts/bored ppl/cheap socialising or something yeh ? then we need to sort out something wherewe can seperate our areas into categories..ie Edinburgh night , ......london night , you know ? i will sleep on this and get back to you lol

we cant afford the dating site prices so why dont we have an MSN free one ? just an idea prob stupid ...had 3 vinos lol x

pinkie_pie

MOJT - Bitter and Twisted, she mentioned stoner and doom music and you must be nearish me too!

kimmee - ummm I don't actually know where that is! I'm shaming myself. Norwich? Norfolk? It's an 'N' isn't it! lol!!!

worriedsik

kimmee wrote: »

<

---

wilds of East Anglia :eek:

lo i used to live there