I just do not know what to do

MyRubyRed

Its cos "You are worth it" Bless L'oreall for coming up with it but its true!!!!!!!!!!!

tinatony1

I just wanted to add that i have been listening to my chemical romance today, in particular the song Famous Last words, it really does say everything about a situation like this but it has the lines

I am not afraid to keep on living, i am not afraid to walk this world alone .

i think this is going to be my mantra from now on

Bogof_Babe

Also see if you can find I Will Survive (Gloria Gaynor I think) on YouTube.

Best way you can thank everyone is by coming out of this a stronger and hopefully happier person! xx

MyRubyRed

Tina, Ive never listened to the song before.. but just have on Spotify and pulled the lyrics up too. Bloody brilliant.
xx

Mely

Tina, i love that song too! x

tinatony1

also have a listen to 'I dont love you' by them as well.

nm123_2

I'm just glad you are feeling a tad better Tina! I reckon actually that your OH has given you the best time to do this... Feel sh!te Oct/Nov, come out the other side during Dec and bring on a new fantastic 2010! Woo!

Kay_Peel

You get very low at weekends, TinaT. It might be useful for you to think about you can stop yourself getting into that trough. Your next goal might be to plan a better weekend for yourself, so that you don't get into a rut and spend the whole time in agony.

It's not easy - especially if you aren't near a big town and you haven't got a lot of money to throw at the problem. You might not feel up to it because it's daunting going anywhere as a single person, at first.

I was desperate to turn my lonely weekends around and fill the time. Sometimes, I'd have a crisis of confidence about turning up to things by myself but I knew that if I could do it then I would reach a better place in my life. I scoured noticeboards for free activities - talks, jumble sales, concerts, walks, whatever - and I made plans for the weekend.

I can laugh now about how I filled my weekends with activities that are just NOT me, but another part of me is extremely proud of how I found the strength, character and will to survive the transition from couple to singledom.

It completely did his head in when I spent one snowed-in weekend rearranging all the furniture in every room and removing wall art and knick knacks. I recommend it as therapy.

By the way, I wouldn't put too much store by H's description of barneys and sleeping on the sofa. He'll tell you what you want to hear and miss out the bit about having a passionate reconciliation, sadly. Please don't listen to this claptrap - for your sanity's sake.

worriedsik

tinatony1 wrote: »

You Guys are all just so brilliant :T:T:T

i wish i could do something to thank you all for what you have done for me i really do. i couldnt have got this far without you, not this soon anyhow.

i just want to send the biggest hugs i can to everyone of you, you really are lifesavers.

:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

you are doing something to thanks us tina ! you are being strong...keep it up x

neneromanova

I am so pleased for you Tinatony! How did you feel when he lift? I bet you had a huuuuuge grin on your face!