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I think I may have been too nosey for my own good - where do I go from here?

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  • viktory
    viktory Posts: 7,635 Forumite
    edited 26 September 2009 at 2:17PM
    Bold-girl wrote: »
    No I'm not to unduly bothered as he's not changed how he's acting with me one jot

    You have not snooped as you both have access on the computer. My husband occasionally looks at my e-mails when he logs on and I have no problem with that.

    However, regarding the 'sexy chats' I would be incandescent with rage at him and her. To me, this is a form of cheating. You and he need to have a long taljk about exactly what is going on and why. The fact that he never mentions this woman rings alarm bells with me and I actually suspect there is more to this than meets the eye.

    Do you want to know what is going on or are you happy to live in ignorance?

    ETA: Not read all the thread yet so advice and opinions might be slightly out of date!
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