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Getting really demoralised now with the Social Distancing thing.
Just this past week I've become more and more disillusioned with the whole social distancing thing to the point where its really getting me down. I'm finding I'm getting really stressed and irritable and I dont do stress! but I'm getting quite upset. My husband just tells me to forget about what everyone else is doing and…
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Wedding anniversary whilst separated
My husband and I have been together 17 years but in January he moved out. It was due to some dissatisfaction regarding our relationship but a big part (he tells me 60%) of it was due to his mental health. He has said all along that he hopes we can address the issues and get back together. So our 10 year wedding anniversary…
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Buying a house when separated
Hi All, hoping someone can help before I look at expense of solicitors etc. So, Nov 2018 found out my wife was having an affair. We agreed to try and stay together and make it work for sake of very young son. Then in October 2019 agreed it was not going to work out - so we separated. We sold our house, and divided any…
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Inheritance share and granny flats
Hi there, your advice is appreciated... bear with me. My parents are planning on selling the family home and building a rather large extension/granny flat onto one of my sibling's property/land. They have come with a bit of a financial proposal and have asked us how we feel about this and our opinions. I am not quite sure…
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Wedding Planning
Hi all, I'm not sure if this is the right discussion area for this but I'll post it & hope. We have paid a deposit to a wedding planner who it appears has had an argument with the venue, it's since been made up however only for current/booked weddings. Due to the current covid 19 situation we have taken the decision (along…
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Carer for a elderly parent - general questions
I am a carer for a parent and hoping to get input from others who have been in a similar situation and anyone who may have some useful tips. My situation is that I live with the parent who has dementia, I am a carer but also get LA- arranged carers coming daily. Parent is self - funding the care, I have deputyship for said…
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Child support and a new business
Hi I am looking some advice and thoughts. Can anyone advise if I open a new business in a different country in the EU whether any profits or salary that I take from this business are taken into consideration when it comes to child support payments in the UK. I am not trying to dodge any payments, I pay handsomely already…
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I cant block a caller on my mobile, would O2 be able to block it
Im getting a lot of calls from what is obviously a group of teenagers judging from the lads language and fits of giggles from girls in the background. It has been going on at intervals for the last 5 days and nights. I thought they would stop once they got bored but they seem to be calling more often as the days go on.…
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How should this work? Finances in marriage = fairness.
Hi all I'm just wondering how other people structure their finances to understand what's fair. Here's our story, husband and wife together two years. We each own our own properties. Husband rents his out and what he receives in rent just covers mortgage. We live in my house and I pay for all my mortgage. We both agreed…
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Any Agency Care Workers? Interserve?
Hi, I'm really in desperate need of getting some work due to the agency I'm currently with (not care) not giving me any hours and they haven't for months now. Our situation is now desperate and I'm looking at doing care work again. I have in the past but in nursing homes, which after the last two I've had enough of. So I…
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Bombshell from OH
*Trigger warning - sexual assault*I'm writing here cos I can't talk to anyone in real life, my OH has binge drinking issues and goes out and I never know when he's coming home, we've had many arguments and discussions about this and I had enough about November last year and basically blanked him for a few months and tried…
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Living in Probate House, brother being threatening.
Hi..I am a married woman who was living with my husband but because of relationship issues I had to move back to my old childhood home as I had nowhere else to go. My parents have passed away and the house, a large one has been occupied by my brother who for the past 9 years since my mother passed away. The only reason I…
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Am I owed rent
My ex and I split almost a year ago. I chucked him out after finding he had taken items from the house to sell for gambling(the final straw after many many problems!) We had joint tenancy on our rented house and had 4 months left on the tenancy. I spoke to my landlord who was very understanding and I explained the…
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Housemate causing expensive bills, but the rest of us might have to pay for it
For background; I moved in to my current house share about 18 months ago. It’s bills included in the rent, from a private landlord who we have a good relationship with. There are 3 of us living there, and for the most part we all get on really well. However, our landlord is considering putting our rent up as our bills have…
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What cuddly toy is/was your toddler really attached to ?
I have two 'grandbumps ' due to be delivered at the end of the summer and I'm thinking of buying them each a cuddly toy that I hope will become the much loved, dragged around everywhere, can't sleep without it toy. I realise No one can predict or control what a small child can fall in love with but I'd be interested to…
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Company Share and Divorce
Hi All, Not sure if I'm in the right section. Marriage troubles for awhile which are likely to end in divorce this year. We own two houses, likelihood one he'll take and one I'll keep. I am due to get some money from a different source in a few months (car accident). I would like to put this towards a business my friend is…
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Bought items for Ex Partner - now refusing to pay
Hi, I used my credit card some weeks ago to pay for a few bits, Bed, Matress, Fridge for my ex partner moving out and into her new place. With the deal that she was going to pay me monthly. She's moved out and gone back on her word, what are my rights? Everything has been delivered. Thanks,
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Fair or not fair?
2 married couples arrange to go away for a week together (Ignore Covid 19 as this is only for the end of October and in this country so hopefully will be able to go ahead). Its a hobby based week and a cottage that they have stayed in a couple of times before and the cost has always been split 50-50 between the 2 couples.…
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Marriage, one income and credit score, what are the affects?
My partner and I are due to marry late this year, we have one income, mortgage is in both our names and she stays at home as a homemaker looking after the kids. Her credit score pulled mine down when we got the mortgage in both our names, and she can't build credit, even with a credit builder card, how can we lift both our…
