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Loans and divorce
Hello I would really appreciate any ideas about my problem. We are getting divorced after 7 years of marriage. I just found out that my husband had bought his flat before we got married, with the money paid by his brother in 2002. So they had an agreement between themself regarding that loan. He sold his flat in 2015 when…
Threat of Harassment by Neighbour
Oh boy, I'll try to keep this as simple as possible without going into too many personal details. Me and my family moved into a new build home around three years ago. Everything was good, until the one neighbour moved in. Almost instantly, we had to endure dog barking, loud music from his garage/gym, gate slamming and…
Will new job affect maternity pay?
I am hoping to fall pregnant next year but have the opportunity to start a new job which would really complement my career. It would be a temporary part time role for 12 months starting in September, meaning I would have to cut my full time hours at my current job in half. I worry about how this would affect my maternity…
Legal separation
Is it possible to settle a financial legal separation in Scotland, with a lump sum figure if one person is keeping family home etc. We have no desire to split pensions, savings etc belonging to one another.
Lighthearted question
Afternoon everyone. Having some deep and some shallow conversations, as you do! Daughters latest What would you have for your last meal? Me..Cheese omelette , simple pleasures O.H..Southern Slammer from Denny’s D.D..Carvery. . Odd as she’s a veggie D.S No answer as he’s still in bed, yes he’s a teenager! anyone care to…
Coronavirus and Power of Attorney's activation with Banks / Credit cards
Hi, before the lockdown took place, I was in the middle of chasing up from Barclays Business, Barclaycard and Natwest the activation applications I'd submitted. I did try already to chase up some weeks ago, but does anyone know if these 'back offices' are still closed, as I'm concerned that these POAs are still not 'live'…
My Mum's ex-partner is stalking her and demanding money
Hi everyone, Wondering if you can help. My Mum's ex partner is being a nightmare - he gifted her throughout the relationship money towards her car and a TV for christmas (I know she shouldn't have accepted the gifts but hindsight is a great thing). However, it soon became apparent that he was very toxic so she eventually…
Divorce.
Hi just looking to see if anyone’s been in this situation and has any advice. I’m currently separating from my ex husband. We are selling our house. We bought our house and then got married 6 months later I put the full 20k deposit onto the house. Paid solicitors fees as I got 42k inheritance I used the other bits of money…
Tenants in common
Hi We are getting divorce and we are tenants in common. Husband paid towards the deposit and mortgage. It turns out he has £240000 loans, which he used for mortgage payments directly. The lenders are asking for their money to be paid back. We still have £100000 mortgage outstanding. House value is £500000. My questions are…
Amazon legal/ power of attorney
Random question- can anyone provide a contact (phone or email) for an appropriate department at Amazon that might help us reset a login for Amazon Prime TV account for our friend who had a stroke, is aphasic and who wants access to his Prime TV account? My partner is his power of attorney and can provide the relevant…
Address finder 192.com
Hello, is there any other way how to find address in UK without paying membership at 192.com? I only need one address. If somebody knows, thanks for you help.
MSE Poll: How do you rate the online education your kids are getting?
Poll started 19 May 2020School's out for millions of children and young people across the UK (though not all), with many parents relying on online teaching and resources to keep kids learning during lockdown. This week, we want to know how you're finding the remote education your kids are getting. PS: Thank you to all the…
Adoption with debt
Hi All Having just turned 40 and 15yrs of trying for children DH and I are going to start our adoption journey. I currently have 5 debts totalling 9k with one being 6k. I'm hoping 3 ranging from £120-450 will be paid off by the time we get to panel. Dh has much more, 30k debts and I'm worried this will stop us being…
Marriage Allowance
My wife is from another nation, has never worked and has never had a national insurance number. How can we apply for marriage allowance without it?
Search for people with 192.com
Hi everyone, I'd like to ask if anyone has an active membership and would be willing to get two addresses for me. Please drop me a PM. Thank you very much in advance.
Dating Affecting Income
Hello, So recently i have split with my girlfriend, as she says i work too much and dont pay her much attention. This is true and something i tried to change. She has moved back to her parents house. I generally am happy, have good friends, i cycle and have a good work life / balance. However my mind is constantly…
Virtual Stag Party
I'm looking for ideas and inspiration... I was due to be best man at a wedding in a few months time. The stag party which was due to be quite extravagant has unfortunately been cancelled due to the Covid-19 situation. I am therefore hoping and looking to organise a virtual stag-do for the groom. Does anyone have any ideas…
Pram Advice Needed by Silvercross Mums/Dads
Hi, i need your help. I am going out of my mind trying to make a decision on a Pram, sounds daft but this is my first child due in July and i want to get things right. I have fallen inlove with Silver Cross Elegance Travel System someone is selling one second hand for £100 but the tyres are flat. Can people please comment…
Trying to get the family to be MoneySavers
I’m a MoneySaver and in charge of all the financial affairs in my house, yet I cannot seem to persuade any members of my family to change products, my grandparents are on a British Gas SVR paying thousands over the price cap, earning 0.1% on Savings and won’t try rewards credit cards. Anyone else struggling to help their…
Owned belongings back
Recently separated from my partner. She has a TV in her house that I have on credit from argos. I would like this back, how do I go about it?

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Barclaycard's cutting minimum repayments – you could be in debt YEARS longer paying DOUBLE the interest
If you've got debt on a Barclaycard, it's likely the minimum you have to repay each month will be cut from July. If you're unaware, and don't act, you could stay in debt for many years longer and pay possibly £1,000s more in interest.
NatWest, RBS and Ulster Bank to close at least 100 branches in 2024/25 – here's the full list, plus alternatives
NatWest, Royal Bank of Scotland (RBS) and Ulster Bank, which are all part of the NatWest Group, will shut at least 100 of their bank branches in 2024/25, after RBS announced a further 18 closures.
Co-op Bank customer? You could be moved to Coventry Building Society in future – here's what's happening
The building society has today agreed to a potential takeover of the high street bank – though it's still very early days and the deal needs regulatory approval.
Got a text, email or letter from the Met Police? Don't ignore it – you may need to act to protect yourself from scams
If you got a text message or email from the Metropolitan Police between 4pm and 6pm on Wednesday 17 April – or you get a letter in the next few days – don't ignore it.
Save up to £1 on your takeaway coffee – while saving the planet
Many of us regularly reach for a cup of coffee or tea to give us a caffeine boost, but if you’re out and about and can't bring a thermos from home, the cost of this can quickly mount up.
Chase customer? Check if you can get its boosted 5.1% easy-access saver
If you have a Chase current account, you may be able to get a table-topping 5.1% easy-access savings rate to go with it, as the bank has launched a new, temporary bonus offer for some existing customers.
New online state pension boosting tool promised to Martin Lewis hit by delays – here's what you need to know
The tool was first promised to MoneySavingExpert.com founder Martin Lewis on ITV's The Martin Lewis Money Show Live last summer and was expected to launch before the end of the 2023/24 financial year.
Spotify to hike prices by up to £24 a year – here's what's happening
If you've got a Spotify Individual, Duo or Family account you'll see prices rise by up to £2 a month (equivalent to £24 a year) in a month's time, the music streaming service has announced.
Subway customer? You've got until 14 May to use your loyalty scheme points before shake-up – here's what's happening
If you're a Subway Rewards member, you have until the end of Tuesday 14 May to spend any points you've built up – or lose them entirely.

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