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my fathers will
Hi im hoping for some honest advice, to put it bluntly my sister who is my dying fathers appointed executar of his will and also has power to deal with his bank and building society accounts , has basically hinted that when he passes away ,the isa ,s yhat he has left me in his will she will cash in and pay them to herself…
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Child Maintenance
I was never married to my ex partner. Throughout my sons life his father has failed to make regular financial contributions to his upbringing. He has been actively encouraged to take a part in his life and has also failed to do this consistently. His father took me to court to gain parental rights, this was granted along…
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Child Maintenance
I was never married to my ex partner aka John. Throughout my sons life John has failed to make regular financial contributions to his upbringing. He has been actively encouraged to take a part in his life and has also failed to do this consistently. John took me to court to gain parental rights, this was granted along with…
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Girls next year have 2 different teachers for the one class
We have just received a letter telling us what class the girls will be in next year. They will be starting Year 2 and have been told they will be taught by job share - 1 teacher 3-4 days and 1 teacher 1-2 days. My initial reaction was not good as did not want them to be receiving this type of teaching. Has anyone come…
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KS3 Levels
Can anyone point me in the right direction to find out what the levels are for what is expected of Year 8 pupils? I have been told by the school receptionist the highest expected level is 6, however daughter's mark is a 7, does this mean she's at the lowest expected for a Year 9 pupil? I've looked on the government website…
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Husband not interested in money?
Does anyone else have this problem? We're reasonably financially comfortable, so money itself isn't a problem, but I struggle to get DH to show any interest in our household finances. I do quite a lot of financial juggling, as we are hoping to pay the mortgage off in full early next year, so we're pulling across money to…
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mother refuses dna test?
My brother had a one night stand with a girl last year, she became pregnant and told him that the child was his, and he put his name on the birth certificate. The girl asked told him she wanted to have a relationship with him and raise the child together but he refused as he is now in a new relationship. Now he is…
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Cost of removal company - what to expect
I'm moving from a large 1st floor 2 bed (with lots of stuff, more like a 3-bed really) into another 1st floor apartment which is only 0.3 miles away from where I currently live. Right now my lowest quote is 220 all inclusive for a removal firm to come out with a Luton van and a 2 man crew - but I would need to book asap.…
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Divorce, cheapest option??
Hi all, Im a long time poster. My marriage has unfortunately broken down (no going back) kids are 19 and nearly 18. We own house, well mortgage paid in a yr on 220k house. im only 43 its my decision and feel I am young enough to start again. marrisge effectively broke down 5/6 yrs ago but i wanted to be around for kids to…
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what do you do
when you cant carry on the way a relationship is going but you cant bare to be with out the person either?
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Things to do with kids around Southampton?
We'll be off to visit family in a few weeks, just outside Southampton and I'm looking for good suggestions of things to do with kids (age 13 to 1) that are free/cheap whilst we're there. Family we're travelling with are pushing for Paultons Park but matter how awesome that looks or how great the reviews are we are…
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Advice - cannot keep friends!
Hi everyone :) To cut a very long story short (I don't to bore people) I really struggle to keep friends. I feel very lonely sometimes and although I am surrounded with people everyday at work, people that I can have a laugh with but I feel that I don't connect with people. Does that make sense? Through various stages at…
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Feeling down...
Ive just got my degree, and a temping job so I should feel pretty good right? The truth is Im feeling so rubbish I could cry. I am litterally so tired for a start, partly because my job is pretty full on and Im not used to it and partly because I hardly get any sleep. I wake up around 4am (or whenever it gets light) and…
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Mad with ex husband
My 14 year old daughter has just returned from a visit with her Dad. She is my DD3 and her dad lives abroad. We have been divorced for 8 years and apart for 10. She is a chubby child and not very tall, has yet to hit puberty and struggles with her weight. We do what we can to keep her active and hope that when she hits…
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Marriage going belly up.
OK without going into detail it seems my marriage is going to end. We would like to keep the divorce as civil as we can. The worry I have is where my wife and kids are going to live when I leave, we jointly have a house which is worth about £165000 and I wouldn't be able to carry on paying the mortgage and be able to live…
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Y6 sex ed
DS has had sex ed this week and whilst I understand he's not going to be learning about contraception as he's at a catholic school they didn't really cover anything much at all. In fact today they watched a dvd showing a woman give birth with all the gory bits and the head coming out :eek: - is this normal for sex ed? I…
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Tubal Ligation Reversal.
Just wondering if anyone has gone for this procedure & it's proven successfull? Also, anyone know approx costs of this operation?
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Pregnancy at 15 advice
Pregnancy at 15 advice Hi my daughter is pregnant and yes she is only 15.. so im still in a state of shock. I spoke to the nurse and apparently its basically the *norm* now for teenagers to be having sex again shocking.. I had my son when I was 17 and although I love him to bits I found out when I was 5 months and had no…
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Asda, Tesco and Morrisons
Good afternoon all, I'm curious to know if there is much difference in price between the big three? Everyone I speak to seems bias towards their own preference.
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Can I move back in to jointly owned house?
Hi, can anyone offer some advice please? I split up with my partner in december last year. He refused to move out and so i was left with no option but to move out with my 3 children (the youngest 4yr old is his son and type 1 diabetic). I found a privately rented house but they have now decided to sell it and i will have…