Hubbie cheating

Poppykins

Shellaspey - have only checked phone 4 times . I first checked it afew months ago when things were rocky and then checked again last week and this week. Each time there were 1 or two texts. He seems to have deleted maost of hers so only saw one that said she had not replied as been in meetings all day and the other that said about having difficult meeting up.

angelfairy

hi poppykins,

really sorry to read about what you are going through at the moment. the posts have been so helpful to you i dont think i could add anything.

just wanted to send you some hugs.

shellsuit

I've just remembered. When I suspected OH was upto something, I didn't know where to start looking. (I had suspicions like you too)

I put his 'nickname' (his user ID on various forums, so say for example 'shellsuit' and it's also the beginning of his email address too) into Google......I wish I hadn't, because I found a LOT of things out (like him being on various dating sites amongst other things).

You could try this?

annie_d

Knelley you are absolutely right. Time can ALWAYS be found.
I feel as if i am going mad. I don;t want to say how i know but i DO know. Everyone says he worships, adores and loves me and would NEVER cheat. But he is.
I am going to the bank next week on my day off to see where we are "up to" financially then i will have "the showdown".
Knowledge is power.
Don't blame yourself Poppy. Things can just happen. xx

Poppykins

Thanks Loretta. I will see if I can book an appointment with a solicitor as I do need to know my position. I guess as the major breadwinner and the one that pays for everything I could lose alot.

pandora205

I don't think you should feel guilty about checking his phone..... he's the guilty one. Just now you are rightly feeling insecure as anyone would do. Most people in this situation would be searching everything for signs. It is natural to do this, not just for 'evidence' but because you need to know.

Poppykins

Thank you so much to you all. Your advice and support has been really helpful. I am going to sign off now as my hubbie is due home anytime soon. Will keep you all posted with how things progress.

Thanks again.

shellyaspey

poppy there are things you will be able to do if you have a joint account once you ahve decided what you are going to do i would start emptiying it slowely put some cash aside each week there are ways you have to be just as deviouse

shellsuit

Poppykins wrote: »

Thank you so much to you all. Your advice and support has been really helpful. I am going to sign off now as my hubbie is due home anytime soon. Will keep you all posted with how things progress.

Thanks again.

Take care Poppy, let us know how you get on xxx

annie_d

xxxx Poppy