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Intimidating bullying Argumentative Buyer; I want to withdraw the Sale.

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  • supermezzo
    supermezzo Posts: 1,055 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Pain in the Ar*e
    It aint over til I've done singing....
  • i_love_it
    i_love_it Posts: 850 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    supermezzo wrote: »
    Pain in the Ar*e

    Ha ha I clearly need to lighten up!

    Anyhow, result i think; original buyer has an Unconfirmed Address so I have issued Refund on that basis.

    Is that feasable?

    Can I claim back fees, if so how or is it automatic?
  • pinkgem
    pinkgem Posts: 3,299 Forumite
    you need to file an unpaid item dispute stating that buyer requested shipment to an unconfirmed address
  • i_love_it
    i_love_it Posts: 850 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    OMG she has payed me again within seconds after refunding her! What to do please the crazy %&*^$$

    how the hell does she have feedback of over 4000 she belongs in a straight jacket

    Ahem..... excuse my emotion
  • When the refund is issued, i would personally be refunding less postage cost on the basis that you paid to send the item. Also less paypal fees, as these charges are out of your hands..
  • i_love_it
    i_love_it Posts: 850 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    When the refund is issued, i would personally be refunding less postage cost on the basis that you paid to send the item. Also less paypal fees, as these charges are out of your hands..
    i think i can recoupe the charges if a legitimate reason for the sale not complete.
    i think Unconfirmed address is a legitimate reason.
    I'm happy to stand corrected.
    I have issued full refund but as i've posted, she has paid again, within seconds, Bizzare!
    She is blocked from my listings but i guess this will only apply to future listings?
    I've left a note on refund advice mail stating i do not Ship to unconfirmed Address
    Why Has she paid Again
    How is it allowed
    She hates me more than i hate her & is driving me crazy!!!!
    And what the hell to do next?
  • goldspanners
    goldspanners Posts: 5,910 Forumite
    i thought that if you were a seller you would have to have a confirmed paypal account?
    i might be wrong.
    ...work permit granted!
  • i_love_it
    i_love_it Posts: 850 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    i thought that if you were a seller you would have to have a confirmed paypal account?
    i might be wrong.
    Yep i thought so too, especially the volume she sells, looks like a full time job for her.

    I've contacted customer support ebay with my concern.......
  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    probably a 'spare' pp account.
    she's most likely hoping to chrgeback you
  • luvvlyjubbly
    luvvlyjubbly Posts: 2,440 Forumite
    Ok....you can either refund her again and hope she gets the message....or you can keep hold of her money. She will eventually file a paypal dispute where you will be given the option to give buyer a total refund, which is what you will do and case is over....
    But my opinion is....you werre wrong not to sell to her.....i agree you didn't have to reduce postage but regardless of how much of a pain she was, if she paid you should've posted to her....then blocked her and given her a neutral or neg...but she did pay so really only a neutral was due.
    Never put off until tomorrow what you can avoid doing altogether.:D
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