boyfriend says he can't upset wife!!!!

caroleann

ellie14 wrote: »

Hi Caroleann isnt his deadline looming ,please let us all know the outcome ,good luck.

Hi Ellie, it was such a boost for me to see you all here today, wondering how I was, Thank you, I'm gutted and let down, cried my heart out and know there's lots more tears to come but not yet, I'm being strong at the moment, but the lonliness will creep in later tonight when we'd usually be out together.

caroleann

Errata wrote: »

You must be feeling rotten, but you are worth far more than he was prepared to offer.

Hi Errata, good to hear from you, was just about to pm you, thanks for all your support, the vast majority of you were right about him, cant honestly believe the excuses he gave me, pathetic.... asked him just before i chucked him out to text his wife and ask if he could meet her sometime this weekend to have a talk, and I would stay with him, he said 'I'm not doing that in front of you' and 'I'm not doing that in a text'... so I said 'GET OUT'.

liuhut

OMG I cannot believe its a month, keep looking in to see if you have updated....I'm glad that you know where you are now.
Good luck for the future
Love Laura X

melancholly

been following this thread - sending you huge hugs. come on here later and have a whinge if you're lonely - don't sit on your own and get overwhelmed.

caroleann

liuhut wrote: »

OMG I cannot believe its a month, keep looking in to see if you have updated....I'm glad that you know where you are now.
Good luck for the future
Love Laura X

Hi Laura,
Its good to hear from you!!!! It feels like 6 months to me, was getting more and more frazzled as the deadline got closer, as I knew what I would do if he had'nt kept his word, was counting the days and thinking this might be the last time we come here, make this meal, watch this programme, make l--e, you get my gist? so its all over and I know now I'm not his number one at all, maybe number 6ish:eek: not good enough in my books.

larmy16

What a fantastic thread Carolanne, I hope you can stay strong now and not be taken in again if he starts weaseling you! This has been better than any novel.!!

caroleann

melancholly wrote: »

been following this thread - sending you huge hugs. come on here later and have a whinge if you're lonely - don't sit on your own and get overwhelmed.

Thank you again, I will do, I need you all around me tonight, need lots of big hugs, feel like I've just cut my right hand off, somethings missing.

caroleann

larmy16 wrote: »

What a fantastic thread Carolanne, I hope you can stay strong now and not be taken in again if he starts weaseling you! This has been better than any novel.!!

Ha, glad I've kept you enthralled...... its all true though, might sue Loopy Love:mad:

Errata

I've just had a nicecupofteaandasitdown and I've read the tea leaves!
This is what they told me -

He will lick his purely superficial wounds
Creep round to his wife
She'll get fed up with him AGAIN and tell him to take a hike
He'll get his haircut and buy some new clothes
He'll go out on the town in a big way
A blonde 30 something will latch onto him
He'll tell her all the right things and rattle her bones until she screams
She'll expect him to take her out 4 nights a week and spend lots of lots of money on nice caffs, bars etc etc
He'll think he's in his 30's again and a helluva lad
She'll think he's a middle aged bore but she enjoys the high life which she's making sure he pays for
She won't go walkies with him for a cheap date
She won't walk anywhere 'cos she wears 4" heels all the time
She'll expect him to take her on a pricey holiday in the summer
She'll be with him for just as long as it suits her and until she spots a bigger fish
She'll dump him by text

Return to the first line of this reading !

Aren't tea leaves wonderful.

caroleann

larmy16 wrote: »

What a fantastic thread Carolanne, I hope you can stay strong now and not be taken in again if he starts weaseling you! This has been better than any novel.!!

Thanks Larmy,
I'm going to be strong, as for his weasling, yes I think in about a week he'll try to get in touch with me, the funny thing was, I wrote a letter to him a week ago and had it ready to give to him if he let me down, which he did!!! It said I hope I never have to give you this letter but if I have its because you have let me down and our relationship is now over, dont ring, text, e mail or call at my house as you wont get an answer, also, to not do this to any other unsuspecting woman out there as its cruel and I feel used, so maybe when he reads it he wont try his weasling ways, I would have him back tomorrow if he came with a legal document prooving he'd instigated divorce proceedings, that aint gonna happen :mad: