boyfriend says he can't upset wife!!!!

caroleann

Anyone out there? need some advice, AGAIN!!!!

Errata

lol......... wassup ?

loopy_lass

hi, well im in similar situation lol... ive spoken to my fella about his drinking and hes agreed to cut back etc... hope it lasts...

good luck caroleanne

xxx

ceridwen

ohmegod carolann - whats happening now then?;)

Methinks I ought to tie you up and gag you for a bit - then you could easily resist temptation!:D

caroleann

Errata wrote: »

lol......... wassup ?

Hi Errata,

I'm alone again on a Saturday, he's gone away in a huff, we had words about the York Trip and a bad night last night, he's blowing hot and cold, cant handle him, so tempted to tell him to !!!!!! off for good. x

caroleann

ceridwen wrote: »

ohmegod carolann - whats happening now then?;)

Methinks I ought to tie you up and gag you for a bit - then you could easily resist temptation!:D

He's driving me mad, turns up looking fab when we're supposed to be on a break, all my defences are dropped then today tells me he has to take his son's Kayak ( SP ) to him, fair enough, but no plans to come back or for us to go out, AGAIN x

caroleann

loopy_lass wrote: »

hi, well im in similar situation lol... ive spoken to my fella about his drinking and hes agreed to cut back etc... hope it lasts...

good luck caroleanne

xxx

Good luck loopy lass, but they say one thing and do another, as mine just has, feel a bit used actually:o

ceridwen

Think you better go back into having that there "break" again pronto. Cant you literally go off on holiday for a couple of weeks somewhere nice? Take your mind off things (ie him) and ensure he cant get anywhere near you.

Errata

Oh dear. Blowing hot and cold = keeping you guessing ? Puts him in control of the partnership rather than it being a joint venture?
Gets the huff and clears off leaving everything up in the air and you feeling bad ?
Is there a pattern ?
I dunno, I'm trying to do a jigsaw with all the pieces turned face down, so all I can do is point out that some of the pieces have no corners. HTH

Errata

caroleann wrote: »

Good luck loopy lass, but they say one thing and do another, as mine just has, feel a bit used actually:o

Standard practice for manipulative personalities I'm afraid.