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Need to have new home for my dog.

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  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    Kimberley wrote: »
    Please don't advertise him on places like Gumtree if you want a good home. You get dog criminals on there looking for free dogs to take for dog fighting/selling etc or if they see an ad with someone looking for a dog they will steal the breed of dog from it's home and sell it to that person. Hand him over to a dog rescue or go and see the home he will live in if you rehome him yourself.
    Don't worry I am arranging to go and visit the home in the next couple of days, and Duke will only go for a trial with the family at the weekend if I think that its ok. However the lady seems to be a dog lover, she is a volunteer at the BHF, and has already got one dog.
    I wouldnt just hand him over to any body. Thats why we has been looking for a home for him for the last few months and why the BF has had him for me for so long. If this connection does not work out, then I will get back to the Dogs Trust and try again. I think my email had gone amiss somewhere. But if Duke can be local then perhaps I wouldnt have to loose contact completely with him. Although not sure if that might be harder to bear?
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • HI, Mooloo, so glad to here that there is a possibility, and some one you work with too? He would have a doggy friend as well! That must make you happy!
    Fingers crossed for you and duke
    x
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  • Savvy_sewing
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    HI, Mooloo, so glad to here that there is a possibility, and some one you work with too? He would have a doggy friend as well! That must make you happy!
    Fingers crossed for you and duke
    x

    It would be better, I hope, as then I can get updates etc on how he is doing. I really dont want to loose him, but the landlord here wont bend and my BF has enough to do being a single dad of 3 teenagers and working full time.
    The dog is just another problem to him really. I am lucky he has had him for so long while I have looked.! Will keep you informed on how he does.:D
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • i had to give up my do about 2yrs ago unfortunately she had to go to the dogs trust.

    they put your dog on a waiting list and then phone you when they have a space so you can take your dog in.

    It really was heartbreaking having to leave her there and i cried for days as i felt so guilty.

    But they do rehome most of them and never put healthy dogs down ( one i contacted only tried to rehome them for 3 weeks before putting them to sleep)

    It really was the last resort for me, but i know they would look after her well until she was rehomed.

    good luck.
  • Savvy_sewing
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    the lady from work let me down. But my eldest daughter was going to look after Duke while we went to a wedding at the weekend. She was talking to the new landlord of her local pub who were looking for a dog, anf when introduced on Friday they seem to have took to each other, so he is staying there on a trial, see if they all get on. Wonder if Duke will remember that he came from a pub originally.!!
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • t_r
    t_r Posts: 134 Forumite
    Good Luck Duke
    My opinions are purely my own act on them at your own risk :think:
  • Savvy_sewing
    Savvy_sewing Posts: 11,580 Forumite
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    Duke appears to be settling in his new home, according to my daughter. I was going to visit when I was in Towcester yesterday, but then I decided that I would probably be more upset. I gave the pub landlord a bone I had bought, to give to Duke and assured myself that they were ok. Then after telling them a few things to do with him, I left. They did ask if I wanted to see him, but I thought long and hard and thought that Duke might be confused and pine after me, if he saw me and then I went away again. It was so hard, and I was in tears when I left. I know I am daft but I cant help it.
    At least I know were he is, and can get updates of how he is doing, and can go and see him later if I really want to.
    Thanks to all of you who offered support and ideas on re homing him.
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • Mooloo I haven't posted before, but have been reading your thread, So pleased you have found a good home afterwards, I can understand how hard it must be though (((hug)))
  • Savvy_sewing
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    bumble-bee wrote: »
    Mooloo I haven't posted before, but have been reading your thread, So pleased you have found a good home afterwards, I can understand how hard it must be though (((hug)))
    Thanks for the hug. Appreciate it. I think sometimes my BF doesnt understand how much i loved my dog. It was so hard to have to choose to loose him to be able to help my twins by moving here. Time was against me.
    When I die I will know that I have lived, loved, mattered and made a difference, even if in a small way.
  • supermezzo
    supermezzo Posts: 1,055 Forumite
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    Just wanted to say 'well done' for having the strength to hang on and find him a good home, then for having the strength to walk away. Not easy, I know.
    It aint over til I've done singing....
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