i have had the morning of my life ahhhhh

angel81uk

As you've already said, it's not so much the !!!!!! that's the issue, it's the deceit. The truth is most men (and plenty of women!) enjoy a bit of self loving every now and then even if they're getting plenty in the bedroom from their partners. That's natural, healthy and IMO should be encouraged. It's not bad, just different. And if a guy needs !!!!!! to enjoy that then fair enough!

As for hiding it, well, is it really any wonder? It's been drummed into most people from a young age that masturbation and or !!!!!! is wrong/nasty/dirty/something they should be embarrassed about. So there initial reaction is to carry on doing it secretly and denying it if questioned! Some people are more comfortable with it and happy to share that part of their lives with their partner, but others aren't. That's just something we have to live with. Unfortunately I think that by being confrontational about it you're just reinforcing those feelings of doing something wrong.

My advice would be to relax about the !!!!!! issue and concentrate on you finances. You've already changed the pin on sky so that's that issue dealt with in the future. Now you need to work out a budget and each pay enough money into a separate account to cover all your bills. That way anything that's left in your personal accounts is yours to spend as you please.