i have had the morning of my life ahhhhh

scrimpingbadger

I'm with the others love. It's not the !!!!!! per se I'd be worried about (though old people and dogging is yeuchhhhh) but the lying and the utter utter disrespect of your obvious intelligence.
Something tells me you can do better.
Make sure he knows that too.

zincoxide

You could always dig out the !!!!!! and plaster it all over the walls, or leave some lying around bith big coffee cup stains on it!

Why are you staying with him? If I'd done that to a girlfriend I'd be expecting to be thrown out on my ear! (though I'm sure there would be a lot of blokes in the same position)

As for the dogging & older people, that's just plain wrong! Especially if his own girlfriend is still getting asked for ID to buy booze!

alanalea

zincoxide wrote: »

As for the dogging & older people, that's just plain wrong! Especially if his own girlfriend is still getting asked for ID to buy booze!

Not everyone has to like the same things though. As long as it is not illegal then why should anyone have a problem with what anyone else likes in the bedroom? (Or out of as the case may be ) OK I know dogging is illegal, but as long as they are consenting adults they are not harming anyone else.

I got ID'd in Asda today. I'm 25- My husband and 2.5yr daughter were with me :beer:

JoJoB

zincoxide wrote: »

As for the dogging & older people, that's just plain wrong! Especially if his own girlfriend is still getting asked for ID to buy booze!

At least she knows she'll get even more attractive to him the older she gets - no trading her in for a younger model.

Seriously though - would you say the !!!!!! is getting in the way of your sex life? Is he using it as a replacement or escape from real sex with you? Or does he just have a higher sex drive and feel the need to top up his quota? If the latter then at least it's not with other women. But it is possible to get addicted to !!!!!!, and all addicts lie about the addiction before they realise they are addicted. So maybe he needs help?

I'm not sure the people calling for you to kick him out are really being helpful. Do they kick out their partners and end relationships whenever there is a difficulty that needs to be sorted out? Bit blummin flaky if you ask me.

BallandChain

alanalea wrote: »

Wow, you got all of that from a few posts! It's !!!!!! for goodness sake, nothing illegal (from what kylieM has suggested). I actually bought my hubby some Bizarre mags for his stocking

kylieM: I'd confront him about it- not about why is he buying !!!!!! but why is he spending your money on it and lying. Doe's he work? Could you suggest that he pays half of the sky bill and pay for any additional 'movies' he watches?
Is he embarrassed about the !!!!!! he likes? Could you not discuss it and maybe even bring some of into the bedroom- if you are comfortable with it (not saying you go dogging ) It may even bring you two closer together if he doesn't have to hide what he really likes.

Also doe's he lie about anything else?

I don't think the OP wants to dress up as an OAP to get her man excited!

robpw2

ok mans point of view : (ok gay man but i still count lol) i think that you need to have a word with him about the lying but there is nothing wrong with !!!!!!.
He should be able to view and watch what he likes but has to be prepared to pay his way . !!
I
your not his mother so dont mother him ! that includes telling him not to do something as well as paying for him when he does .

I know a lot of you have suggested scissors to certain areas but have you ever tried getting that much blood out of the bed clothes ? No amount of milk will shift that .

moo2moo

I love VHS !!!!!!. Theres nothing I'd rather record The Teletubbies over! My hubby went thorough a !!!!!! phase a while back I'd come across it in the oddest of places, stashed so that I wouldn't find it as he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I worked on the basis that if it didn't exist then I couldn't record over it, especially when I discovered that he was swapping them at work. I put it down as mostly harmless. Especially when you ask them to stick a film in while you're ironing..."the one thats in the DVD player will do". Its the fastest I've seen him move in years!

alanalea

BallandChain wrote: »

I don't think the OP wants to dress up as an OAP to get her man excited!

LOL, no maybe not

What i'm saying that even if he likes something different, there is nothing wrong with that.If there is something that he would be willing to share with the OP to take away some of the lies, then that will help to bring trust back into their relationship.
JoJoB makes a valid point being addicted to !!!!!!, which if this is the case, he should be helped.

I still believe that the issue is not with the !!!!!!, but with the lies being told regarding the money being spent on it. I really hope that you get it sorted OP.

alanalea

moo2moo wrote: »

I love VHS !!!!!!. Theres nothing I'd rather record The Teletubbies over! My hubby went thorough a !!!!!! phase a while back I'd come across it in the oddest of places, stashed so that I wouldn't find it as he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I worked on the basis that if it didn't exist then I couldn't record over it, especially when I discovered that he was swapping them at work. I put it down as mostly harmless. Especially when you ask them to stick a film in while you're ironing..."the one thats in the DVD player will do". Its the fastest I've seen him move in years!

That's got to be the funniest thing I've read tonight :rotfl:

Zebedee69

Not wishing to state the obvious:

Do you two have sex anymore surely if you have a fun packed sex life you would be watching !!!!!! with each other and using the tips;)

If this is the reason he is watching !!!!!! then the real issue is not "he spent money" its that:

a: He has turned to !!!!!! because he no longer loves you, find you attractive and respects you.

b: Your hiding behind finding what you refer to as "dirty" stuff as a way of showing your fustration of having a husband who doesnt love you anymore.

Either way the real issue is not the one your tinkering with its that you two need to talk.....................................................

By the way...... !!!!!! rocks two of my ex girlfriends loved !!!!!! lmao. Maybe its younger generation or something but girls like watching a bit of hot girl on girl co-ed action even more so than me lmao!!!