i have had the morning of my life ahhhhh

Grace_

kylieM wrote: »

Hi Grace

He is a bit dense when it comes to hiding things. I haven't approached him about the sky bill yet as he is out watching west ham, but I wont let this one go so lightly

Try and stay calm with him when you do approach him about it. Maybe mention that the nice people at sky gave you a list of what was ordered and when, and that now you'd like the truth from here on. Maybe if he can be open with you about his habit, it wouldn't be such a bad thing.
Ask him what he gets out of it...Why hes secretive about it (I know you may already know these answers, but its all about him opening up to you about it and feeling that you will understand if he explains the truth).

kylieM_2

map200uk - I signed up to sky when I had a better job, now I was hoping to stick to the agreed amount.

Fleago - lol not at all, I was making the point he slept with someone that was 25 years older than him at the time. Mabye it has had an effect. I am taking about OAP's now lol

Grace_ - He is a closed book, I will try, but I don't think I will get very far, I will have to catch him in the act :eek: to get anything out of him

Fleago

kylieM wrote: »

Fleago - lol not at all, I was making the point he slept with someone that was 25 years older than him at the time. Mabye it has had an effect. I am taking about OAP's now lol

Oooooo Kylie, run like the wind, run, run for the hills.......................................... before the more senior of we mature ones see what you've just written! :rotfl: :eek:

kylieM_2

Fleago wrote: »

Oooooo Kylie, run like the wind, run, run for the hills.......................................... before the more senior of we mature ones see what you've just written! :rotfl: :eek:

I am sorry

Grace_

Kylie - its your choice to have the sky, even if its a luxury you dont need. Its understandable how much these movies must bump up the cost of a basic package, so consider changing the pin and if possible putting a password/child lock on those channels. You could get together his collection and sell it-in order to pay sky, or insist that he foots the bill for his habit.

map200uk

id just kick sky into touch , it's junk, had it a good 8 + years ago-when it was analogue, and maybe 30 chans? and each month more added and the bill gows up and up, till now you have 100000 chans of crap, repeats on all the time and adverts on , so if i wana watch a good show, say pb, i have to have ads? which ruins it for me-and ive paid?

sod that, i'd rather download it, watch early and in comfort without ads, i'd seriously think about getting rid of sky, and perhaps looking into freeview? or even the infamous dreambox:)

mark

I_know_my_ABC_and_my_CMYK

Relationship counselling?

I personally don't have a problem with !!!!!!, just the hiding and lying of it. There must be a reason why he's lying and hiding it.

Mollymop5

Maybe you should buy ( or get a friend to buy) a !!!!!! mag designed for women and put it on your bedside cabinet for a day or two then keep popping upstairs for 10 or 15 mins at a time.tell him you're just putting washing away Then you can let him catch you reading it.

He may feel differently if he thinks you need something extra too

Oldernotwiser

Does this guy have anything going for him? He seems addicted to fairly heavy !!!!!! in a big way; he spends your money on it; he's a liar; he doesn't care about you enough to marry you. I was right the first time; kick him out! You deserve better.

alanalea

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

Does this guy have anything going for him? He seems addicted to fairly heavy !!!!!! in a big way; he spends your money on it; he's a liar; he doesn't care about you enough to marry you. I was right the first time; kick him out! You deserve better.

Wow, you got all of that from a few posts! It's !!!!!! for goodness sake, nothing illegal (from what kylieM has suggested). I actually bought my hubby some Bizarre mags for his stocking

kylieM: I'd confront him about it- not about why is he buying !!!!!! but why is he spending your money on it and lying. Doe's he work? Could you suggest that he pays half of the sky bill and pay for any additional 'movies' he watches?
Is he embarrassed about the !!!!!! he likes? Could you not discuss it and maybe even bring some of into the bedroom- if you are comfortable with it (not saying you go dogging ) It may even bring you two closer together if he doesn't have to hide what he really likes.

Also doe's he lie about anything else?