i have had the morning of my life ahhhhh

kittiej

He fell like a bag of bricks, just dropped to the floor in a heap and he's a big bloke and 6'2" so I was expecting to run cos I'm much smaller lol.

He has been very remorseful this time but I don't trust him any more.

I keep telling him that I can't love him as much as I used to and that he has ruined things and he accepts that but begged me to let him stay.

I have always told him that I will consider anything, so its not as though I'm a prude or anything because there's loads of stuff we've done and had a good old laugh about too :rotfl:

It's the deceit like you said, and not just that, its the fact that you end up paying for something that you aren't even benefitting from.

Have you really spoken about what you've been through, does he understand you and do you understand him?

Perhaps you need to find each other again.

Hope it works out for you.

DKLS

Whats he doing paying for his !!!!!!, when you can get it for free, tell him to do a google search for 'youporn', a bit like Youtube, but full of !!!!!! .

jessbrown100

hi kylie,
it may help to look at it like this- do you ever see a bloke in the street and think 'jeez! look at the a** on that' or watch films with johnny depp all the way through and then realise you have no idea what the plot was as you were too busy ogglin' him? (surely not just me?). All humans are biologically programmed to look at other men/ women and feel ahem, 'horny' when faced with an attractive one, men just have a more 'visual' sex drive then women and don't rely on their imagination as much. i just think that men (bless them) sometimes just need a little visual stimuli to get their rocks off and even though the !!!!!! he is looking at is completely different to what you are like (am thinking the OAP thing) it doesn't mean he doesn't love, appreciate and get turned on by who you are! my DH will happily watch !!!!!! involving size 10 36dd'd blondes but would run a mile if ever confronted by one in the flesh! lol:rotfl:

zincoxide

jessbrown100 wrote: »

my DH will happily watch !!!!!! involving size 10 36dd'd blondes but would run a mile if ever confronted by one in the flesh! lol:rotfl:

Do me a favour - ask him to give her my number before he runs away!!:T

jessbrown100

will do zinc, lol:rotfl:.btw, wasn't meaning to be derogatory to all you chaps on here, just think that the majority of men and women are very different and perhap OP and her OH arelooking at this problem from completely different viewpoints. best of luck Kylie!

ilace

cant see what the problem is its only a bit of !!!!!!... my god no wonder the poor bloke hides it from you if this is what he gets...

i dont think people are really helping you by saving leave him or chuck him out thats not the answer really is it...

saying that if he wants to buy it i think he should make sure he uses his own money to do...
ilace

ilace

some people lol

squidge60

phew i was getting worried thought there was something wrong with me have to say i agree with ilace .what would some people do if it was something really serious .why kick him out just for doing !!!!!!(bet theres a lot of people out there that wish thats all thay had to worry about).my ex sil used to go mental if so much as a topless woman was on tv needless to say my bro used to be sneaky!.please try and talk it through if you love him surely it must be worth looking for an answer.good luck x

Ems*Honie

Nothing wrong with !!!!!!.

Lies, secret stashes and doing it via a means that you pay for, and then denial? Thats the issue.

If he continues to lie and keep secrets I have to agree with the posters who advise the firm boot to his rear end whilst showing him the door. If !!!!!! is something you could come (haha) to enjoy together, then I would say work on making it something you share.

Make him pay for his own.

duchy

Keep the Sky and ditch the bloke. !!!!!! isn't the issue here-the lying is.