i have had the morning of my life ahhhhh

Oldernotwiser

alanalea wrote: »

Wow, you got all of that from a few posts! It's !!!!!! for goodness sake, nothing illegal

Well, no, I got that from the first post. This guy has large amounts of heavy !!!!!! hidden in various places and, as someone said, dogging's illegal. The fact that he's ashamed of it is about the one decent thing you can say about him!

alanalea

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

Well, no, I got that from the first post. This guy has large amounts of heavy !!!!!! hidden in various places and, as someone said, dogging's illegal. The fact that he's ashamed of it is about the one decent thing you can say about him!

I said dogging was illegal, but I also said that if it was between 2 (or 3 or 4) consenting adult whom are not bothering other people I can't see what the problem is? I think that he is embarrassed about the !!!!!! he is looking at, but I don't think that he should be made to feel ashamed. As robpw2 said, he is a man in his own rights who should be allowed to watch what he wants- assuming that he pays his own way.

All I'm saying is some people have called for his balls on a plate and the 8 year relationship to be finished. I think that is a bit harsh, where all they might need to do is communicate more or even go to relationship counselling (as suggested by I know my ABC and my CMYK) I'm not looking for a fight and I'm not singling anybodies posts out

kylieM_2

I should give you some more background, as I did start the topic.

I had an abortion a couple of months ago as I was suffering from depression and lost my job (not having a good time of it) not my fault as I was taking the pill, just one of those things, I have been having after diffulties.

That is prob why! the !!!!!! isn't the problem, its the fact I am paying for it that is.

alanalea

Oh hon, sorry. It could be that the abortion has also hit your oh, it's going to take time for both of you ( I know how patronizing that sounds, it wasn't meant to).

Does your OH work? As I said before, could he not pay half of the Sky bill plus the 'extra' money?

kylieM_2

alanalea wrote: »

Oh hon, sorry. It could be that the abortion has also hit your oh, it's going to take time for both of you ( I know how patronizing that sounds, it wasn't meant to).

Does your OH work? As I said before, could he not pay half of the Sky bill plus the 'extra' money?

no its ok we are both fine about it, its the fact I haven't been able to do as much that I think he has created a habit.

yes he works to pay off the debt he has created.

I have asked him about it and guess what the answer was "I haven't ordered it"

It has become a running joke between my mother and I

JoJoB

You tell your mother about your husband's !!!!!! stash? :eek:

Hope you and your OH are going to be ok.

robpw2

i think if somone told my mum about my !!!!!! . id be extremly embarrassed and keep it to myself . And lie if i got caught.

SO you kind of need to be a bit more discreet ...

make him aware that you have no issue with it but he has to stop lying

Also would suggest you change sky pin and advise him you have no problems with the !!!!!! but you are worried about the amount it costs and therfore he needs to try and curb his usage .

I know you have had your issues and i can understand how you must feel but you need to try and work something out between you.

alanalea

robpw2 wrote: »

i think if somone told my mum about my !!!!!! . id be extremly embarrassed and keep it to myself . And lie if i got caught.

SO you kind of need to be a bit more discreet ...

make him aware that you have no issue with it but he has to stop lying

Also would suggest you change sky pin and advise him you have no problems with the !!!!!! but you are worried about the amount it costs and therfore he needs to try and curb his usage .

I know you have had your issues and i can understand how you must feel but you need to try and work something out between you.

I couldn't have put it better :T

I do hope you and your oh are going to be ok.

kittiej

I've had a similar situation.

I found out that I was paying for [EMAIL="!!!!"]!!!![/EMAIL], he denied he was into that sort of thing and wouldn't do it again blah blah.

I let him off, but he did it again. When I protested I was told that loads of women are into it. Fine I said go and s**g one of them then.

The last time I found stuff in my computer boy was I mad.

I called him into the bedroom where the puter is and played the stuff I found.

I didn't give him a chance to speak, I was sat on my chair and he was stood up so I spun round on my chair and gave him a good hard dig in the ballcocks.

Surprisingly, he now says he's gone right off the stuff!

floss2

I agree with changing the sky PIN, or asking for all adult channels to be blocked & THEN changing the PIN....

Maybe your PC could "go to the shop" for something, and security / filters can be reset while it's "away".....

Just one question....roughly how much is he spending on the mags?