Mooloo's struggle with babies and bills

Savvy_Sue

Before taking SJW or any other 'natural' remedy you MUST check it's not going to interfere with any prescribed meds, especially the contraceptive pill ...

mooloo, talk to the GP about your reaction to the anti-ds, there may be alternatives or a smaller dose or he may anticipate that this will pass very quickly, but that's where you should get your medical advice from.

Savvy_sewing

Well I dont have to worry about the medication/or herbal stuff interfering with the contraceptive as I had a full hysterectomy 2 1/2 years ago!!. But I will ask/research before I take anythingelse. I shall make another appointment to see the doctor when I get a chance. Feeling very tired today. On Friday BF helped me to get the car back, it set me back £160 to get it through its MOT. Then once I had sorted out an overnight bag and left the twins with instructions I went to BFs for the rest of the day/and well into Saturday. Then I went to stay the night with my parents, and then brought my son back with me today.
Yesterday BF and his daughter and I, walked into town, had a meal together in one of those Buffet all you can eat for £5.99 lunches and then after a small bit of shopping (I bought new underwear..Again..) we walked the scenic route back to his. It took about an hour through the town then over the fields. My hip knew all about it by the time we got back. Then I drove to my parents. Sat up talking quite late, with a few glasses of vino to help us through the evening!. Mum brought me in tea and a digestive biscuit just after 8am. Luxury. My grandad used to bring us tea and digestives or half a banana when I was little. Memories.
I picked up my son from my eldest daughters house, and had a leisurely drive back. Had to stop off at the supermarket to buy nappies and babymilk as twin 1 had telephoned that she had run out!!. Baby was in the last nappy. I am so fed up with them. What was she thinking about leaving it until the last nappy? So again Mum has to foot the bill so that the babies dont go without. Twin2 is still in her night dress. The other grandparents and babies Dad have BBJ for the weekend. She is a bit lost without him and depressed although she did get to go out with a new BF last night.? Both twins seem to have found BF's this week, which is worrying me. I hope they dont get in too deep too quick, and I am fearful that the worst may happen again.!!! Contraceptive Pill or not!.

Savvy_sewing

With the help of my dad I managed to get my car insurance done, and remembered to do it via Quidco so I should be getting £75 back once it has tracked. That will come in handy a bit later on. I managed to get the car insurance for £278 which was £50 cheaper than the quote with my current insurance company. So I am chuffed at that. I couldnt do it with my Visa Electron its not accepted by so many people on line (including Mr T), so I had to get parents to do it with thier account, (but was my money).

Biggest*of*Mooloos

Hey, Hope your feeling better, Granny said you looked really well when youcame over - a lot more positive than she thought you would be Have you managed to get little man to help you with the garden yet?? its really quiet and empty without him here lol l.o.l xxx

Savvy_sewing

Biggest*of*Mooloos wrote: »

Hey, Hope your feeling better, Granny said you looked really well when youcame over - a lot more positive than she thought you would be Have you managed to get little man to help you with the garden yet?? its really quiet and empty without him here lol l.o.l xxx

Ah youve gone now, I had been doing the dinner etc.
Little man has pitched his tent in the garden, and he and his mate are camping in the garden tonight. He looks like an SAS trooper with balaclava and his army stile coat!!
I feel absolutely crap at the moment. I felt reasonably well yesterday as I had come from BF's and not from home. I seem to sink into my shoulders within minutes of getting home.
The dog should be able to keep you company. You can always have DS back with you on occassion. Sure you dont fancy a twin or two?

Keeping_Motivated

Hi Moolo did talking to your mum and dad help? Did they suggest anything to help you cope or a way of changing things?

KM x

Savvy_sewing

Keeping_Motivated wrote: »

Hi Moolo did talking to your mum and dad help? Did they suggest anything to help you cope or a way of changing things?

KM x

It was quite an emotional talk with the parents. I explained how I was struggling, and how sometimes I feel like giving up. They said that I have done a lot more than some would, and that what ever I decide I have to do, they will support me.
We disgussed whether or not I should let the girls go. If I should ask the social services to find a way of having the girls in thier own places, and the social giving them help. We also disgussed whether or not I should still be working, and why I wanted to carry on working as I struggle with the girls. I really am frustrated with the girls mess, and the continued !!!! ups with thier money.
I struggle to work and earn my money, which is not the best of paid jobs, and is a very hard job, and then my money has to stretch to cover the costs of the grandchildren too. Today it was babymilk and nappies that they had run out of!. I cant exactly not get them. Although when I got the text about the milk, I did say that I thought some watered down cows milk would be ok for BGP as she is 10 months old now. I dont know if they did give her any or not before I got home. She was on her last nappy when I got back!. The other baby was with his other grandparents so his milk and nappies were with him.:rolleyes:

Savvy_sewing

I really need to think long and hard about the future. I think that when the council sort out what the housing benefit is going to be with my full wages, it may very well be the decider on whether I give up on working or not? But then I would be at the bottom of the heap financially as well as physically? The doctor said I was not going to be eligable for DLA, but that I would and should be on Incapacity Benefits. So I need to investigate what that is, and how much, and wether I am ready to give up the job and look after myself for a change.

Keeping_Motivated

Do the twins leave it til the last nappy before doing anything about it because they KNOW you will sort it and they can rely on YOU so don't really NEED to be organised? Are they 'using' their children in a way to get this kind of thing out of you because they know you will not/cannot see you grandchildren go without?

Savvy_sewing

I don't think that they are that clever. They just arenot organised, cannot foreward plan, and dont think.