Pub barring

HillStreetBlues

Think "time" should be called on this thread.

Pollycat

Gavin83 said:

Pollycat said:

Gavin83 said:

As I said before OP I'd recommend you stop posting. You won't get whatever answers you're hoping for here.

Ultimately if we take you at your word (and I see now reason not to) there are two possible scenarios here. The first is that this is a misunderstanding and you've done nothing wrong. Unfortunately if this is the case there's probably nothing you can do about it but it is frustrating to be accused of something you know you haven't done.

The second option is that you've said something inappropriate and you've no idea what that was. If the bar manager is unwilling to tell you what that was then frankly there's no way you can learn from it so unfortunately you'll have to repeat this mistake until someone actually tells you.

Either way just forget about it, move on and find another pub. 

Or change his behaviour so he doesn't make sexual remarks that pub managers deem unacceptable.

How is he meant to change his behaviour when he has zero idea of what behaviour it is he’s meant to change? It’s like shouting at a child for being naughty and then refusing to tell them what they actually did.

Besides this is all theoretical. No one has any idea whether he actually did anything wrong at all.

Maybe if he had been less 'merry' when he first arrived at the pub and hadn't continued drinking, he might remember what he said.
His story has changed since he first posted anyway.