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An in-between phase

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  • Today's mse things:

    Entered the Omaze flash comp by post

    Very tedious survey but £3 is £3

    Found a clock in the street, it's grubby and cracked but then so am I

    Not as mse:

    Went to pub but beautiful day and I did some bits of organising and had a nice chilled time with myself. No sign of rat

    Really need to get on it with steps and being proactively mse but feeling very disinclined to make myself do anything I'm not feeling for. I'm sure I'll be back to trying to smash the daily to-do's soon but right now I feel too much like there's no reward in trying to do the right thing so sod it.
    I appreciate that is very petulant, but sometimes a woman needs a sulk 


  • KajiKita
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    I find chocolate helps when channeling an ‘A’ grade sulk … 😉😊

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  • beanielou
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    Passes chocolate. 
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  • Sun_Addict
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    I’m sorry to read things are pretty carp at the moment with things entirely out of your control. So frustrating for you and no wonder you need a sulk. I really hope things improve very soon 🤞
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • I do not bring amateur game @KajiKita, this sulk will be sulked!

    Ta @beanielou. Had a sudden hankering for a dime bar, put a request in to Mr PIP on his way home and he wasn't able to find the pure version but did get Cadburys milk chocolate 'sharing' bars with dime bits that were delicious

    Thanks @Sun_Addict. It's annoying feeling powerless to resist against the upset of powerlessness but hopefully things will improve soon. Not from my end though, I'm on strike from trying and hoping *feebly waves placard* 
  • Sun_Addict
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    Congratulations on the win 👏 Glad you had a lovely evening with friends. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,401 Ambassador
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    Congratulations on the win 👏 Glad you had a lovely evening with friends. 
    From me too. 
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • redofromstart
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    So pleased for you in the PB win. I'd have probably spent it all on wine and chocolate though.
  • Thanks @Sun_Addict and @beanielou, it's an extra relief as Ernie forsook me last month, I presume to teach me a lesson about not being tempted to spend £70 on brackets when I actually need a home!
    Cheers @redofromstart, wine and chocolate always extremely tempting but hopefully there will be other wine and chocolate indulgent spend opportunities soon 🤞🍷🍫
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