Escape to the country & living off savings

KajiKita

You sound exhausted and I can understand why you found the lurkers so unsettling. 

I think it's good advice about the police and neighbourhood watch and everything Tresinia said.

One small extra thought from me. Could you book a break away somewhere for after the funeral for a few days, just so you know you've got some respite coming up? A change of scene, someone else doing doing the cooking etc. Just think it might help to have 'something to look forward to' and it sounds like you need a break? 

Sending hugs x

KK    

doingitanyway

I would be unsettled too in that situation. Hopefully nothing and great someone is going in and out on a regular basis. It would be surprising if you weren't feeling low and tired. Take care x