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  • doingitanyway
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    I'm a member of the U3A I only go to a weekly dance class. My Mum attends a dance class, language class, Tai Chi, qigong and goes on various trips. As well as do lots of things not through the U3A, I don't know where she finds the time and energy.
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    Hope all goes smoothly. 
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    Hope the storm isn't too bad for you. It's chucking down rain here but is forecast to for the next fortnight so might as well get used to it 😁
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    Two weeks of rain ☹️ Pouring down here too but they’re still forecasting snow. 
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    edited 9 January at 10:42PM
    On the subject of gyms Are there any " women only" gyms in your area?  Or even groups for different things thar are women only,  that Mr SA couldn't join you. 
    In our area we have a weekly walking group, which goes through a wooded common, totally unsuitable for mobility scooters. Do you have anything like that? 
    A women only gym wouldn't make any difference to him escorting me there and/or meeting me afterwards. There are walking groups but the walks tend to be in places where you need a car to get there first before you do the walking. 

    I know this sounds like I'm making excuses for everything but I'm being realistic. 

    I have a few ideas of things to do that he wouldn't be interested in such as U3A and proper Spanish lessons. I'll still have regular meet ups with friends too, some who have already retired and a few who will be retiring soon. 
    Our walking groups do a car share scheme where we meet in town and one driver takes the others for a nominal fee to cover fuel so being a non driver does not necessarily mean you cannot participate in them. The U3A walking group is one of these. 
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  • doingitanyway
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    I would love the car sharing scheme idea @enthusiastic saver.  I'm off to look up my local U3A

    Ooh holiday pot @Sun_Addict do you know where and when yet?
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