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  • I’d echo the thoughts of others about not buying a scratchcard for an unknown (at this point) recipient - and to be honest the same is true of anything alcoholic too. The idea of not giving the names out until the day seems pretty guaranteed to end up with a lot of tat being bought mind you, far easier when you can tailor it to something you know someone might find useful! 
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  • warby68
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    I've never heard of a Secret Santa so secret that you don't know who you're buying for.

    Not the best idea needing to be so 'neutral' it suits everyone instead of so 'nice' for just one

    My suggestions probably a bit weak but what about a reed diffuser or candle - I'm sure they have them around £5 in the supermarkets?

     
  • badmemory
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    I always thought secret Santas were a great idea but a secret one that even the buyer doesn't know sounds like my definition of a nightmare & I do not envy you this at all.  Are all the recipients female?
  • Sun_Addict
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    badmemory said:
    I always thought secret Santas were a great idea but a secret one that even the buyer doesn't know sounds like my definition of a nightmare & I do not envy you this at all.  Are all the recipients female?
    Yes all female and all drink 🥂
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Glad you're not being badly affected by the storm.

    Maybe wrap the JD as an extra deterrent in case Mr SA finds it?

    So pleased you've carved out a nice space for you.
    Would a futon fit in case of any of Mr SA's middle of the night telly volume habits?
  •  Veg = fibre so although I suspect it’s not the reason MrSA has decided he wants to eat processed foods, he might not be far off the mark with the tie-in with stomach problems! 

    Fantastic that your new space is suiting you so brilliantly - as you say what a shame you didn’t do it sooner. On the other hand, having had more time to think about it probably means it’s even more “just right”! 
    🎉 MORTGAGE FREE (First time!) 30/09/2016 🎉 And now we go again…New mortgage taken 01/09/23 🏡
    Balance as at 01/09/23 = £115,000.00 Balance as at 31/12/23 = £112,000.00
    Balance as at 31/08/24 = £105,400.00 Balance as at 31/12/24 = £102,500.00
    £100k barrier broken 1/4/25
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Morning all. 

    Just been out to the bin and it’s fair to say it’s a tad wet and windy out there! 

    The dog has stolen my reading spot on the dining room sofa so I’m perched precariously (and not very comfortably) on the edge. 

    Going to a Christmas craft fair at a local leisure centre this afternoon, thankfully indoors. Sounds like a huge event so should be good. Mr SA can’t make his mind up whether he wants to go or not. It will probably be very busy so he won’t be able to go round it on his scooter. It does have a bar though and he’s liking the thought of sitting with a pint while I look around the stalls 😆

    Other plans for today are dog walking, GFWR day 8, meal planning, dusting/vacuuming, Spanish and surveys. Also need to remove the gel polish from my nails ready for a new colour on Thursday. Really pleased that the gel has lasted almost 4 weeks and only just started to lift. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • beanielou
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    Enjoy the fair. 
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