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  • Blackcats
    Blackcats Posts: 3,874 Forumite
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    Oh goodness me - that's all you need.
    hope they both recover well.
    Fingers-crossed you will have a good night's sleep and can have a restful day tomorrow. 
  • Cherryfudge
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    Oh crumbs SA: I'm away a few hours and all this happens. I feel bad for not taking MR SA more seriously (though I was right about him wanting lip balm). I do hope all three poorly ones have a peaceful night and some healing rest.

    And you - I hope you can sleep and catch up on missing shut-eye, but if you can't, maybe a relaxing bath and a hot chocolate, or equivalent to slow yourself down after all the adrenalin. 

    Sending love and hugs and hoping for a brighter day tomorrow.
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  • MatyMoo
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    So sorry to hear of all the poorly people but glad you have the house to yourself to do as you wish for now. 

    I ended up in hospital a couple of years ago,  In A&E there was always someone attached to a prison officer but it was a bit of a surprise when a lady was brought up to the Stroke Ward from A&E handcuffed to the bed one side &a prison officer the other. I was only there for another 10 hours but she had 2 officers with her at all times. They were struggling to get cover to swap with them at the end of their shift.  It occurred to me that hospitalisation must be a huge drain on their resources. 
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  • CRANKY40
    CRANKY40 Posts: 5,911 Forumite
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    Thank goodness you were home before Mr S_A started feeling poorly. I hope everyone is better soon and that you manage some sleep tonight. 
  • Chrystal
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    Why did they decide to keep DD in hospital?  Hope she's OK and that MrSA improves.  (((hugs))) XX
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Chrystal said:
    Why did they decide to keep DD in hospital?  Hope she's OK and that MrSA improves.  (((hugs))) XX
    Her bloods had dropped back down. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Cherryfudge
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    I'm glad you slept well. Could you get in touch with any former colleagues for support?

    I think you might have to borrow Mr SA's scooter to take the dog for a walk so she gets a semblance of normality. 
    I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
    The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)

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  • Sun_Addict
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    I'm glad you slept well. Could you get in touch with any former colleagues for support?

    I think you might have to borrow Mr SA's scooter to take the dog for a walk so she gets a semblance of normality. 
    Last time I borrowed it to go to the hairdresser when my leg was in plaster I nearly crashed it 😬
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • foxgloves
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    Visiting 2 different city hospitals in a car would be hassle enough, @Sun_Addict, so I don't blame you when you are reliant on buses or shanks' pony. I have my laundry out too as we do have lovely sunshine here this morning. I think pottering around doing jobs is a good way to cope with stress, & thank goodness you can wfh. I know you are physically v fit, but there are still limits to how much a person can cope with at any one time.
    Let's hope for good news soon & that Mr SA looks in his hospital bag.
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