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justworriedabit said:SingleSue said:I have no option but to go into work (well once we are allowed to reopen) as our work cannot be done from home. I was a shielder, returned last July (2 weeks after we were allowed to open and 2 weeks before shielding guidelines were paused) and have no qualms about returning again next month. We're all counting down the days until we are allowed back.
Was I anxious last July? Oh goodness yes but I knew they had done everything possible to ensure our safety and we had all had to undergo Covid safe training before returning. It was one of the most nerve wracking things I have done walking in on my first morning but by the end of the shift, it felt like I had never been away...well apart from all the extra cleaning and sanitising of things!
However, you have completely missed the OP's point yet again. It is not only the OP that feels vulnerable but they have others that are vulnerable living with them, or did you chose to ignore that? Very importantly, as you said, you went back to work but the OP is being called back for a few hours, why put the OP and their loved ones at risk for a few hours. Please read the OP's posts again and then compare your experiences with theirs but not forgetting they are in a totally different situation to you.
My experience? It was scary, I was anxious, I also have an anxiety disorder and OCD and I am in a customer facing role....which in fact poses more of a risk to a clinically vulnerable person than going into an office as a non vulnerable person for 3 hours.We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.6 -
MattMattMattUK said:wannabe_a_saver said:Nebulous2 said:lisyloo said:jimi_man said:
I can't think of much training that would be better (or even possible) virtually - no doubt there is some. I imagine a lot depends on what profession the person is though.
some examples
ethics
anti corruption & bribery
unconscious bias
positive thinking
data protection & Gdpr
quality systems
Cyber security (games to find the phishing)
most technology training e.g. programming languages, operating systems, databases has been going online for many years,
obviously practical things like first aid, fire training, brick laying etc. Need to be done in person so as you say very much depends.
Ive been going to work since may 2020 and the biggest issue by far has been public transport and not a COVID secure office. Behaviour of people in offices has been much better controlled than on buses and trains.
I had assumed everyone was doing the same, but it may be that we are fortunate in having the necessary equipment on site. It wouldn't be so easy in community settings or finding someone in need of resuscitation in the street.
In that situation you would do compression only CPR. To be honest, that's been the advice for non-health professionals for some time anyway. Good quality compressions and fast access to an AED is the best chance of saving a life.
15 minutes is a really long time for CPR, quality drops after just 2 minutes so you should be swapping frequently if you can.0 -
68ComebackSpecial said:elsien said:And the debate has done several full circles and ended up back where it started, courtesy of some posters appearing not to be taking account of others points of view, how situations can be managed to mitigate the risks, and restating points which have been covered in depth from varying points of view already.
I do hope the OP has been able to take away points that they may find useful, and have read the replies even if they've not logged back on.
Well, @justworriedabit won't be back, at least using that name, to continue with her ranting indignation at others having the temerity to hold a view at variance with her own as she has been banned again.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.18 -
wannabe_a_saver said:MattMattMattUK said:wannabe_a_saver said:Nebulous2 said:lisyloo said:jimi_man said:
I can't think of much training that would be better (or even possible) virtually - no doubt there is some. I imagine a lot depends on what profession the person is though.
some examples
ethics
anti corruption & bribery
unconscious bias
positive thinking
data protection & Gdpr
quality systems
Cyber security (games to find the phishing)
most technology training e.g. programming languages, operating systems, databases has been going online for many years,
obviously practical things like first aid, fire training, brick laying etc. Need to be done in person so as you say very much depends.
Ive been going to work since may 2020 and the biggest issue by far has been public transport and not a COVID secure office. Behaviour of people in offices has been much better controlled than on buses and trains.
I had assumed everyone was doing the same, but it may be that we are fortunate in having the necessary equipment on site. It wouldn't be so easy in community settings or finding someone in need of resuscitation in the street.
In that situation you would do compression only CPR. To be honest, that's been the advice for non-health professionals for some time anyway. Good quality compressions and fast access to an AED is the best chance of saving a life.
15 minutes is a really long time for CPR, quality drops after just 2 minutes so you should be swapping frequently if you can.0 -
elsien said:68ComebackSpecial said:elsien said:And the debate has done several full circles and ended up back where it started, courtesy of some posters appearing not to be taking account of others points of view, how situations can be managed to mitigate the risks, and restating points which have been covered in depth from varying points of view already.
I do hope the OP has been able to take away points that they may find useful, and have read the replies even if they've not logged back on.
Well, @justworriedabit won't be back, at least using that name, to continue with her ranting indignation at others having the temerity to hold a view at variance with her own as she has been banned again.11 -
Jennsabs81 said:I just dont want to go in, and put myself and a vulnerable family member at risk too when cant go in a house with family members but can be in a room with 4 people in office
So if you were allowed to go in a house with family members, e.g. restrictions lifted, you'd be fine going into the office?
I read this as "if they won't allow me to go into a house with family members, then why is it safe to go in the office"1 -
68ComebackSpecial said:elsien said:68ComebackSpecial said:elsien said:And the debate has done several full circles and ended up back where it started, courtesy of some posters appearing not to be taking account of others points of view, how situations can be managed to mitigate the risks, and restating points which have been covered in depth from varying points of view already.
I do hope the OP has been able to take away points that they may find useful, and have read the replies even if they've not logged back on.
Well, @justworriedabit won't be back, at least using that name, to continue with her ranting indignation at others having the temerity to hold a view at variance with her own as she has been banned again.2 -
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[DELETED USER] said:SpiderLegs said:[DELETED USER] said:Thrugelmir said:[DELETED USER] said:Going forward WFH will be a major benefit and employers that don't offer it will be at a disadvantage. They need to think carefully about the offer they make to employees if they want to retain them.
Employers who take that attitude will be losing a lot of good staff. Being told you can't work from home because the boss doesn't trust you to work is a pretty clear message.
Of course some people will want to come to the office, which is fine. Many will want to do a hybrid of both.
If employers want to avoid the disruption of taking on new people, losing all that knowledge and experience of how their business works, those established working relationships, they need to consider employee work/life balance and conditions.0 -
By the same token very few jobs are irreplaceable.
If employers want to avoid the disruption of taking on new people, losing all that knowledge and experience of how their business works, those established working relationships, they need to consider employee work/life balance and conditions.0
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